I don't think you understood what I'm saying. My gripe/problem/feud/issue is about people who are miserable in their marriage but they will always be there to sell their shitty marriage like it's a golden ticket out of anything and everything If you follow their shitty steps.
If you have a happy marriage (not you personally) I salute you and your partner and I have nothing to say.
I'm mature enough to know that anything and everything that involves 2 people in any amount of time would have some difficulties.
But that doesn't change the fact that people whom are trying to sell you on marriage 99% of the time are the ones that have shitty marriages.
You're fighting a strawman you made up buddy. I'm talking about his own and how he acted. If you don't like it I suggest you check yourself and let me know if I was misleading about my claims.