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Waht do you wear to express yourself that seems obviously bi?

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

I'm a new/ confused bisexual so I genuinely don't have anything that makes me feel bisexual just wearing it.

I wish I could wear loose button ups (that's my baby bisexual dream) but they never look even remotely androgenous on me because the body shape I've got is pretty stereotypically feminine. Like, loose button ups especially just flow off my chest in a way that only really makes me look bigger than I am, while tight button ups make me look like a stripper.

The closest I've come is an undershirt with a loose, boyish button up worn open, which I like to do but again, with my figure, I don't think it says bisexual so much as it says "look, boobs"

So yeah, I'll be following this thread for tips!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Pants with pockets.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I have a burgundy velvet blazer that I love to wear. I encourage everyone to feel/pet it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Scarves and sleeveless blazers. Fuckloads of rings and necklaces, too.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I wear a rainbow wedding ring, only because nobody makes bi pride silicone rings. Always looking for them but usually only find very poorly made junk show up in June :/

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

How are silicone rings? I don't really get the concept behind it

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I like soft, comfortable rings. Huge bonus is that don't run the risk of getting caught or crushed in things, especially the machinery I work with.

A family friend was degloved by their wedding ring just while working around the house.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

I live in a really conservative area and have never really had a head for fashion, so I don't really go around professing my bi pride in the way I dress, really.

But when I saw the double-crescent moon symbol, I immediately fell in love with it. I've been trying to find jewelry, especially a necklace, that has it, but I haven't found one. I've found lots of other ones that I don't think fit my fashion, but either a bi-colors double-moon or simple metal double-moon necklace, I barely know where to start looking and everywhere I do look comes up dead ends.