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Prime Minister Rishi Sunak has launched yet another attack at the trans community by saying that people “can’t be any sex they want to be.”

He made the remarks during his closing speech at the 2023 Conservative Party conference on Wednesday (4 October) afternoon.

At one point, Sunak said that people shouldn’t be “bullied into believing people can be any sex they want to be” as he made clear his stance on trans people.

“We are going to change this country and that means, life means life. That shouldn’t be a controversial position. The vast majority of hard-working people agree with it,” he began. “We shouldn’t get bullied into believing people can be any sex they want to be. They can’t,” – Rishi Sunak

“It also shouldn’t be controversial for parents to know what their children are learning in school about relationships.

“Patients should know when hospitals are talking about men or women,” which was met with a large applause.

He went on: “We shouldn’t get bullied into believing people can be any sex they want to be. They can’t.”

“A man, is a man, and a woman, is a woman, that is just common sense,” he added, to yet more noise from Tories in attendance.

Many on social media site X (formerly known as Twitter) reacted to the comments, accusing Sunak of making “persistent attacks” and labelling him “disgraceful”. “A man, is a man, and a woman, is a woman”

One wrote in response: “Trying to distract people from his government’s corruption and incompetence by attacking some of the most vulnerable people in society. Vile.”

Needlessly stirring up hatred where it is unjustified to make a cheap political dig, before going on to claim the country is wonderful because of its tolerance. Disgraceful excuse for a PM,” another went on to add.

Sunak can go and do one. Pandering to middle class transphobes isn’t the election winner you think it is,” someone else echoed.

“The persistent attacks on not only one of the smallest but most at risk communities is vile. Absolutely disgusting party through and through including anyone who supports them,” a social media user weighed in.

It comes after Health Secretary Steve Barclay outlined plans yesterday (3 October) to ban trans women from accessing female NHS wards.

This has since been backed by other senior Tories such as Home Secretary Suella Braverman.

LGBTQ+ charity Stonewall criticised the announcement, labelling it a “cynical attempt to look busy” instead of actually improving women’s healthcare.

Addressing party members in Manchester, Mr Barclay said: “We need a common-sense approach to sex and equality issues in the NHS – that is why today I am announcing proposals for clearer rights for patients.

“And I can today confirm that sex-specific language has now been fully restored to online health advice pages about cervical and ovarian cancer and the menopause.

“It is vital that women’s voices are heard in the NHS and the privacy, dignity and safety of all patients are protected.”

The post Rishi Sunak says people ‘can’t be any sex they want to be’ in new swipe at trans community appeared first on Attitude.

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[–] [email protected] 61 points 1 year ago

Oh great, so he isn’t just a massive bellend but also a transphobe, wonderful.

[–] [email protected] 58 points 1 year ago

Women's voices must be heard*

*Unless they're pro-LGBTQ women's voices, in which case they can stfu

Sunak is a grade A wanker

[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Maybe not, but they can be any gender they want to be.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (3 children)

How is this helping him in any capacity?

[–] [email protected] 53 points 1 year ago

Distraction from actual issues

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

The mum's net vote I imagine.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Has anyone stopped these assholes to ask why they even care? Of all the hills to die on, this is the dumbest conservative talking point and they've got everyone talking about (obviously the plan) but can't we just dissolve all of that by demanding that they justify their faux outrage?

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago

Easy target of a very small minority that can be mined for outrage.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago

Because hating on ~1% of the population, a lot of whom won't vote for you anyway, doesn't lose you many votes.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I just want it to end. I'm so tired. I'm so very tired. Why can't people let trans people exist.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago

Because a lot of the usual minorities are not acceptable to dunk on anymore. Wider society has accepted gay people mostly as normal, so it's not as acceptable as it used to be to have a go at them. Trans people? Now, they're not seen as normal, so they just getting harder on them.

Additionally there is a trend of US politics carrying over and people like Joanne K. Rowling and her transphob friends that lobby against trans people.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Hitler thought the same way.

You guys need to flush the #Tories completely in this upcoming election.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

We shouldn’t get bullied into believing people can be any sex they want to be. They can’t

They can't

Sounds like a challenge for transhumanist tech to solve 😎✊⚧️Ⓐ💻.

(Other people have covered the factual incorrectness here - the short of it is that (1) gender =/= sex and (2) "sex" isnt some monolithic thing but a complex, multi-axis thing itself - most of these axes are changeable to various degrees as well ^.^)

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago

It’s almost a game at this point where you can spot the bad actors because they’re constantly using gender and sex interchangeably and pretending they’re the same thing yet you know that they’re definitely educated enough to know the difference.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago

These lot need putting in one of their seven bins.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (6 children)

How long til we can vote the tories out?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Their term ends in January 2025 but Sunak will call an election before winter when it's too cold to go door knocking and flyering so likely in the Autumn meaning there will be another year of this madness.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

What a knob.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It’s just hit me; this election cycle is their Lovely Horse. They’ve mined what they can from the coffers for now, and have no interest in presiding over the next few years of absolute fuckery, so they’ve got Dougal on keys and Jack on backing, and are fixing for a gracious defeat.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

I need someone to make that meme of Mr Bean looking over that dude’s shoulder with Mr. Bean labeled as Sunak and the other dude as the American GQP. (Nvm, I’ve got it done: https://imgflip.com/i/81flvk)

I’m not sure I understand why the Tories insist on taking leaves straight out of the US ultra hard right Maga playbook on these things. This is one of those areas where the UK should be separating themselves away from what we’re dealing with in the US. Instead, it seems as if y’all Brits are really digging your heels in on trans issues when there are so many other issues on the agenda (this is the case in the US as well, so trust, I can fully appreciate the frustration).

From my best understanding, this is Sunak’s appeal towards hoping that he and all the Tories are run out of office during your next general election, but dang! This has got to be the most asinine take I’ve seen…since yesterday (things are perfectly inane in the US government at the moment).

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

I’m not sure I understand why the Tories insist on taking leaves straight out of the US ultra hard right Maga playbook

Because they're both playing from the Russian asset playbook.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

We shouldn’t get bullied into believing people can be any sex they want to be.

Does it work like that? From my understanding, a lot of biological and psychological factors play a role. I've listened to a couple of lectures about that, I was surprised how complex it is. I'd expect from someone in his position to be more educated on the topic. But he probably doesn't care. For him trans people is just a safe enemy to create and to attack. Too many politicians on the West follow Putin's and Orban's steps. That's worrying.

[–] bloopernova 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What the fuck.

WHAT THE FUCK

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

Out of touch man parrots out of touch opinions he thinks are held by people he thinks might vote for him.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Yes they fucking can you absolute cockwomble.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

Fuck this guy.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago

“It is vital that women’s voices are heard in the NHS and the privacy, dignity and safety of all patients are protected.”

As if the PM's and his peers' comments were not enough to clearly show that they don't care about the people: just yesterday, U.S. company Palantir closed in on the UK health data contract with the NHS as per Bloomberg. So where is this privacy and dignity?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

Yes, I’ve heard from all my friends and family in the uk over the past few years: they’re not worried about low pay, high mortgages, fuel cost soaring, crumbling transport, NHS waiting lists, unaffordable rent and housing. No, they hide at home to avoid roving gangs of transgender warriors convincing them that they have to change sex. What an arse he is

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Okay, someone please help me understand as I genuinely want to.

I fully understand gender neutral (I am bringing up my own children to not restrict their behaviour and personalities due to gender norms because of the the sex they were assigned at birth), I understand being born 'male' but feeling more like the societal definition of a 'girl' in terms of both physical and social characteristics. I understand the difference between sex and gender.

I understand and believe that our body is our own and if somebody wants to change their body they should be able to do so as they see fit, including changing it to meet the societal norms in terms of appearance of another sex.

But here is what I don't fully grasp (but would like to) - why is it wrong to say that those born with a biologically male body should go to the male ward in a hospital? Isn't that where they would receive the best treatment for themselves? Aren't gender pronouns useful when distinguishing between biological differences in the medical field?

I don't mean any offense to anybody with these questions. I fully support everyone's right to identify as anywhere on the spectrum of the social construct of gender. Also, if there is a more suitable community for me to ask these questions in, please do share it.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (4 children)

As someone who is not LGBTQ+ but is trying to understand it myself, the biggest key to "getting it" is separating sex and gender. Sex would be your biological make up, regardless of genital configuration. That's your classic XX vs XY vs the rare "non-standard". It's important to note that there are multiple types of different physical configurations that are "male or female" - Anatomical, Hormonal, Chromosomal, and Cellular - and they frequently do not line up 100%.

Gender is separate from this as a mental construct/thought pattern. For most people, these two things line up, and that is your standard Cis person. A Trans person is where their mental configuration does not match their physical configuration. When this causes significant mental distress we call it gender dysphoria. For the rest, we call it being Trans, non-Binary or something else.

Isn’t that where they would receive the best treatment for themselves? Aren’t gender pronouns useful when distinguishing between biological differences in the medical field?

Why would there be a difference between gendered wards in the quality of the care? Health care is tailored to the patient, where in the hospital they are located shouldn't affect it.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

A couple points to get you started:

  1. It isn’t really the case that said wards are specialising in the way you’re describing, but if they did, why wouldn’t you want (e.g.) all women (cis or trans) who are expecting their blood test results to reflect a certain balance range of hormones, or whose body fat locations and distributions are coded to be the same to be treated together? Especially after SRS, what benefit do you see from placing them in a “men’s” ward?
  2. I understand you’ve drawn a distinction between “sex” and “gender” but “biological sex” isn’t binary, it’s bimodal, and although we don’t yet fully understand how it comes to be that people are gay or trans, there are a lot of compelling reasons to suggest that a lot of people may be trans for biological reasons. In which case, if you want to look at it from a diagnostic perspective, you’ll struggle to meaningfully define what “biologically female” means, and you’ll be more inclined to see it as “has had/not had high exposure to testosterone during formative years”. And as a trait, that can occur also to cis men and women alike, for multitudes of reasons. Biology just happens to be quite complicated, is all.
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thanks for the reply. I'm going to pick out a couple of specific points to check my understanding.

!why wouldn’t you want (e.g.) all women (cis or trans) who are expecting their blood test results to reflect a certain balance range of hormones!<

Are you referring here to individuals who have undergone hormonal replacement therapy? If so, yes, that I totally understand and hadn't considered.

!“biological sex” isn’t binary, it’s bimodal,!<

Okay, so in very simple terms, we're saying that biologically, man and woman isn't such a clear distinction, for a very simple example, some men have much higher levels of testosterone, etc.? If so, I can understand that too. But, I suppose it is the actual biological parts that are different, which I was thinking about.

So, if somebody with born as 'female' body parts undergoes hormonal and sex changing therapy, their reason for being in a hospital is probably more important than the sex they were assigned at birth, and so they should be able to choose the best option for them?

Am I right in thinking the main issues is that we have created a society in which sex and gender were separated and defined so distinctly, that for transexual individuals, there just is no 'correct' option available to them?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But, I suppose it is the actual biological parts that are different, which I was thinking about.

one thing i think is important to recognize is that, while gender is socially constructed, so is sex to some extent. we have a number of features we generally say are "male" or "female" characteristics, including genitalia, but keep in mind that there are around 1-2% of the population that are born intersex. the way we determine sex assigned at birth is almost always through an inspection of genitalia, but for some people that isn't conclusive.

in a lot of places, doctors will attempt "fix" these natural variations, deciding for the child which category they belong in. there is enough variation from "male" and "female" characteristics, and enough people with traits from both categories, that the categories themselves can't really be said to have a purely biological origin, even if statistically they are highly correlated.

Am I right in thinking the main issues is that we have created a society in which sex and gender were separated and defined so distinctly, that for transexual individuals, there just is no ‘correct’ option available to them?

that's very much part of the problem. lots of trans people really don't fit neatly into the boxes doctors currently expect of them, especially once they've gone on hormones, and sharply delineating sex categories like doctors do measurably leads to less positive health outcomes for trans people. the intersex population is also affected by this kind of marginalization.

the reality is that the health of a person has a lot more to do with their specific traits than it does with the collection of traits a sex category expects them to have, which is in reality composed of a cluster of related physical, cognitive, and social traits that can vary independently of one another, and affect our health in specific ways. assuming any of these traits are one way simply because of how somebody's genitals are supposed to be is almost always going to be more wrong than just allowing people to describe and denote their personal experience as they see fit. checking M or F on a box is, unfortunately, not really the same as just saying you have a penis or a vagina. it implies a lot more than that, even if your personal experience does not align with that implication.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

I feel much better informed on the issue now. Thanks.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Good explanation!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Hi, I'm a nurse so let me chime in here from direct experience.

those born with a biologically male body should go to the male ward in a hospital? Isn't that where they would receive the best treatment for themselves? Aren't gender pronouns useful when distinguishing between biological differences in the medical field?

NOPE! Unequivocally NOPE. We don't separate hospital wards based on gender (in the US). Your gender has absolutely zero fuck all not one thing to do with your general biology and medical care. Doesn't change or impact what we do in the least regarding your internal organs - heart, kidneys, lungs, all get approached the same.

What does change what we do is your weight which affects medication doses. And in very, very, very niche specific situations the anatomy of your genitals changes what we do. (Say, if you're having a problem urinating, the length of your urethra and any potential obstacles like a prostate will matter.)

But see, here's the things about that: We can't approach the genital anatomy of two different individuals who both identify as male with the exact same treatment plan. The exact things we do are hyperspecific to the particular anatomy of that individual person. So if we're dealing with a trans woman who didn't have bottom surgery and still has a vestigial penis, then it doesn't make any difference that she's trans. We need to approach the anatomy that is present in front of us, whatever shape and condition it's in regardless of the sociological characteristics of the person to whom the anatomy is attached.

I think part of the confusion in the general public with medical care is the assumption that everyone who identifies as the same gender as you has very similar anatomy to you. Let me tell y'all, I have seen more genitals than a Las Vegas prostitute, and there is more variation than I would ever have imagined. You can't go by a person's stated gender and know exactly what you're gonna get, even if that person is cis. The number of times you lift that gown on somebody and go, "What the fuck is going on here?!" that has nothing to do with a person being trans or not, y'all just have no idea lol.

All medical care is approached specifically toward you as an individual person. Your particular responses to medications (which we can't predict by the way - there's an absurd amount of educated trial and error involved) and your particular anatomy. And 90% of the time, the response to anatomical variations is just "Huh, that's unusual. Anyway, you can pee without any problems, right? Ok good idgaf ¯\_(ツ)_/¯"

The only time your sociological characteristics come into play is when I'm talking to you about your life, providing education, trying to understand your obstacles to medical care.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Only term as prime minister speedrun any%

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Gonna take some to beat Liz Truss for that record.

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