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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It took 10 years to meet anyone that used Reddit. I assume it's gonna take another 10 to meet anyone on this platform.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Yes I have been a Lemmy advocate since I joined, but I have only ever gotten one person to use Lemmy. I told one of my daughters friends mom about Lemmy. She does not allow her daughter to use social media. Except for Lemmy.

So that is it. My one conversion. I have kind of given up on trying to convert people. I still love Lemmy and the Fediverse, but the year of Lemmy mainstream has yet to come.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago

Probably a couple people but it has never actually come up in conversation. I'll ask next time I see them.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

no and i don't think anyone here is real. every account is a russian psyop bot trying to make leftists appear insane and stupid

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You were programmed to say that because I’m the only one that’s real.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Nice try bot, I’M the only real one here

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Yes my sibling uses Lemmy. It was them that prompted me to join.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Yes. I shared a Star Trek meme with a coworker and they asked me where I got it. I told them about Lemmy and Tenforward and another coworker chimed in with "where every Vulcan knows your name"

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago

Other way around, I know people in rl through lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Really, this amounts to a question of who has recommended lemmy to others. Which is an interesting question.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't like recommending to friends because then they'll ask me what my account is and I prefer to stay anonymous. I feel like I probably have friends that are on Lemmy and haven't shared with me for the same reason tbh.

The worst thing I ever did was get to the front page of Reddit back in 2010 and then all my friends knew my handle forever.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I considered it when I got my friends to join Reddit ~20 years ago. I made a second account that just posted links to cat pics, no comments. Cute animals are a safe bet.

Bonus, they started sending me cute pictures of their ferrets and dogs that I wish I had backed up beyond a long forgotten flickr

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I've recommended it to others, but none are interested, which is extra surprising considering how many of them work in tech or tech adjacent.

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (5 children)

Are you real? Is... is anything real??

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I do. But despite my best efforts at explaining and advertising this platform, none of my friends seem to care 🥲.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's crazy. How are they keeping up with news about Trump and Musk then?

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

God, I hope not.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago

Guy from work posted a Lemmy meme link.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (4 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Them sugar walls 😏

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't even know anyone who uses BlueSky and that's considerably more trendy lately. Granted, most of my contacts are 20 something college girls so it's pretty much TikTok as far as the eye can see.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 day ago

My own spouse, but...as the statisticians would say, that is not really two independent samples.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 day ago

Well of course I know him. He's me.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

If they do they probably don't talk about it, tbh.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Not enough grimdank to keep them

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Yes, myself. That's it though

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 day ago

No. Thank God.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

not that I'm aware. my wife made an account somewhere but doesn't use it

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