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I was a long time reddit user, and made a couple new accounts as throwaways last year from different emails but they kept getting shadowbanned everytime I tried to post, comment or send a message. Just last night, my 3 year old account I had no issues using it at all got shadowbanned as soon as I sent a message. It's just so frustrating how hard reddit is moderated and there's no explanations given either they just shadowban you and I don't even know where to ask anyone either I installed Lemmy, hoping it'll be a good alternative and it is great and a lot of things I like about reddit, but there's a significant lack of the type of communities that I browsed in reddit. Hopefully I'll find them here or more people will join and it'll be better. So what made you install Lemmy and what did you wish Lemmy had?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago

No gꝏd (for me) [km]bin instances

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

I was new user, was using Reddit week or so, got suspended/shadowbanned twice in a week, for... something? I was just talking about Linux, Open Source and Browsers, and then BOOM! screw you new user. Buggy mess.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

When they nuked third party apps. For a long time I used the official app, then I switched to 3rd party, nd I couldn't go back

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It seems like most people joined Lemmy for the 3rd party apps. I admit I am not familiar with reddit 3rd party apps and what they do in terms of functionality, I'd love if someone explained them to me

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

The goal of 3rd party apps is to do what's best for the user so they continue to use their app

The goal of Reddit's official app is to do what's best for Reddit

It's possible to expand on the functionality but that's the fundamental misalignment on priorities regarding users

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

the API fiasco.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Well, I was originally here to promote a movie...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago

I had a crush on you as a teenager when I saw you in suicide squad

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

API debacle. Went from Apollo for Reddit to Voyager for Lemmy

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Joined about a year or two before the reddit API fiasco.

  • I really don't like ads+tracking and didn't want my posts supporting a company like reddit
  • I'm an advocate of FOSS
  • reddit has inherent pressures to censor content based on mass media pressure and profit, and to permit anti-social far right trolls
  • reddit punishes proxy users, where many instances here allow me to protect myself while posting here
  • didn't like the new reddit layout - even before I came here, I was lurking for a year or two on alternate frontends
  • I believed federation was a good strategy at building a better reddit alternative

But also, it actually had some communities at the time. If it were more dead, or unfederated, I'm not sure if I would have put as much effort in building communities.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

In no particular order as to why I left Reddit to join Lemmy:

  • Reddit became a chore just to see good content. (This is even after the fact of filtering out unrelated or unwanted subreddits in my feed.)
  • The comment sections on Reddit became worse and worse with more joke/meme comments than actually related comments, low effort comments, bot spam, and the burial of your comment for no one to see, (or care to reply to,) if you were to comment on a post or comment more than 24 hours after it's original posting. (Most of the time it felt like you had maybe 8 hours before it seemed to be a waste to comment.) Why would anyone stick around to comment or reply if nearly no one is going to engage?
  • (Like many others have mentioned in the comments,) if you mentioned or talked about anything that wasn't considered good, you were often blasted with downvotes and/or comments.
  • How often you saw rinse and repeat content, questions, and sometimes comments. (I'll admit. I took part in the rinse and repeat content 'sharing' and I wish I hadn't done it for so long. The karma whoring was real for me.)
  • Concerns (then later the reality check,) about how much Reddit is an echo chamber.
  • /u/Spez showing us who he really is.
  • Not liking the direction Reddit was heading. Writing on the wall when they fired Victoria Taylor
  • The API fiasco.
  • Movement towards IPO.

Lemmy doesn't have any of these problems that I've experienced. Lemmy feels very much like a grass roots movement and I like that. I wish the communities that I am a part of had more active users, but that will more likely come with time.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I used Apollo to browse Reddit. It was really a great app, and it made browsing Reddit enjoyable. The dev, Christian, listened to his users, frequently updated and improved the app, was active in the subreddit, and seemed to care about making it a positive experience. It really was like being a part of a club.

It wasn’t just that Reddit shut down the API, but the way they boldfaced lied about Christian and their interactions with him. He was feverishly in talks with them to save the app, but Reddit not only wasn’t negotiating in good faith, but even worse, lying about the interactions to try to smear Christian and make him look like the villain. It was then that I knew that Reddit would never be the same, and I started looking for alternatives.

I tried several, but Lemmy seemed to be the closest to Reddit and scratched the itch. Not only that, an amazing dev created Voyager, which is heavily inspired by Apollo, (pretty much a direct copy), and makes me feel at home. There’s not as many communities here as subreddits over there, but I have curated a great Home feed, which includes most of my interests and that I enjoy browsing. I can honestly say the comments here are much better and more authentic. On the whole I get real replies and have better conversations instead of trolls and confrontations like I frequently did at Reddit. I do stop in over there sometimes out of boredom and browse, but it’s really not the same as before. (And maybe it is, and I was just fooling myself and not seeing it.) I don’t think I’ve posted or commented on Reddit since Apollo died except on live sports game feeds, which I do miss over here. I found a regional instance that I like, and, on the whole, I really enjoy it here.

TLDR: API killed Apollo.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Same journey for me. Digg > Reddit > Lemmy. I do need leave .world though.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

I came over with everyone else in the big exodus wave from Reddit when they killed third party apps.

I didn't even use a third party app so it didn't affect me, but as an old-school Internet user I believe in federated networks over centralized services and it seemed like the one opportunity to finally get critical mass.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I was one of the leaders of the big fuck spez on r/place, would have been a bit hypocritical if I'd stuck around after the that.

Edit: probably should add a photo

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Reddits idiotic moderation

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago

Reddits idiotic and lazy moderation*

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago
  • Most of the content is reposts and bots
  • Moderators remove anything they dont like(Creating an echo chamber)
  • Comments are mostly low-effort jokes or bots, not valuable discussion
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

This. Lying bastard.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Started on Digg moved to reddit when Digg shot itself in the foot moved to lemmy when reddit shot itself in the foot. I will say I post and comment way more on here. Than I ever did on digg and reddit combined. This place feels more like old school forms than social media. Where people come out of the woodwork to be jerks. Ether because your views don't match theirs or you get some spelling or grammar that's not 100% perfect vs just engaging with your ideas for a constructive discussion. I can't tell how many times I have come back to a reply and gone " you make a good point." on lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Reddits CEO.

Reddit just isn't fun without Reddit is fun.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I still have RiF installed for the nostalgia.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago

I left it on my phone for a long time. Then I started to get worried about it not being maintained.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Reddit killed RIF. I'd already been looking into Lemmy, leading up to the day, but once my app stopped working, I switched to Jerboa and made a Lemmy account.

...didn't stay on Jerboa long

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Got kicked off reddit. But also fuck Reddit for the api change. I just wish the communities had more traffic like reddit

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I guessed Reddit's trajectory would only go (mostly) downhill. I say mostly, because a few new features are useful, like comment searching. Awards are also back. Stayed in Lemmy because the community is more focused

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I wanted to keep using Sync for Reddit and or Boost for Reddit, both clients were built for Lemmy now (as of this message Sync is quite broken though).

Even when I can keep using Sync for Reddit patched with Revanced I truly enjoy using clients such as Voyager (I missed Apollo a lot when I went from iOS to Android) and Summit, Eternity is a good alternative too.

IMHO Summit stands the best because it is the smoothest and behaves almost as good as Sync for Reddit did in its prime.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

What's broken about Sync? I use it all the time with no issues.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Well, since lemmy.ml is the most updated Lemmy instance (it should be shouldn't it?) I assume you should be facing the same issues as most of us.

For me I stopped using it since it stopped marking as read while scrolling the posts, also it kinda broke upvotes and downvotes but I think I got that fixed modifying some toggle in the Lemmy website...

I can't remember many other instance issues for Sync as of now as I pretty much leave after the 1st one I mentioned.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Where my Sync peeps at??

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Reddit is heavily American-centric.

At least on Lemmy, there can be multiple communities with the same name with different rules, focus, region, and culture.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I got banned for inciting violence for saying Monty Williams should invest all the money he stole from Detroit back into the city and then promptly be killed with hammers as a sort of ritual sacrifice to cleanse Little Caesars Arena of his bad juju. It was just a joke and had lots of upvotes but guess it hurt a mods feelings.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Banned for a stupid reason from Reddit. I made a joke that a mod from r/entertainment didn’t like and got banned. I kept accidentally commenting on the subreddit because I often comment on posts without checking subreddit. Even though I had muted and blocked r/entertainment it kept popping up on my feed because it’s a general subreddit. Got banned from Reddit for trying to circumvent the ban.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I was already on Mastodon when the API price increase thing happened on reddit and my favourite client (infinity) became useless. I wasn't going to use the bloat-fest that is the reddit app, so I switched to Lemmy in "protest". Now I'm using eternity (a fork of infinity) and I have found a place in this community where I'm incredibly happy. I'm never going back to that shithole and I don't miss anything from there. There's a lot of karma-farming and every single person there reads exactly the same. There's no real discourse. The only times I use it (and through a web browser) is when I'm looking for solutions to some tech-related issue, and that is, if I haven't found the solution here already.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I've used a lot of different forum types and it's sometimes impressive how much of a systematic difference some decisions can make. By not putting your scoreboard on your profile, simply just not adding a couple of numbers to the page, 'karma' just isn't on my mind and there's no incentive to farm it.

It's degamifying, and it's a good thing.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I got banned from reddit for saying the genocide in Gaza was bad.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago

Really? It's weird, I thought Reddit was more left-wing, but it seems that's not the case at all.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I got banned for saying Israel was a fascist state and this was years before the current genocide started. Zionists have infiltrated that platform good and proper.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 14 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago

The kind where I have a preference for FOSS where ever possible

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I might sound illeterate but what is Foss?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Free and open source software

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 months ago

Apollo for Reddit died. Came here as it was supposedly a better experience. Used to be super active and use Reddit for hours a day for nearly a decade, now I barely use this platform at all as it’s insufferable and tiny tbh. The Linux Cultism here is off the charts and cringe as fuck, the communities are tiny and spammy and bloat the All page, so I block users and communities every day, and it’s been a pretty mediocre experience here for the year I’ve used it. Reddit is ofc a crapshoot now so it’s not worth going back, so I just use this platform for maybe 5-10m a day and that’s all my social media browsing for the day. So Reddit dying and not being replaced with a decent alternative actually cracked my addiction for endless scrolling which is super nice.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 months ago

I like open protocols and free software, and during the API exodus there was finally enough content that I wanted to jump ship.

of course I had annoyances with reddit, but I have annoyances with Lemmy too.

it's still preferable imho