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Apparently it's a trend that most men just receive wallets rather than buying them

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I think I have purchased all mine. My current Ridge wallet, literally changed my life.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

Haven't had a wallet in years. It's all on the phone now

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I got several wallets as gifts ages ago, but I got sick of carrying fat wallets and found a slim wallet to buy for myself and have used it for as long as I can remember now. I would never trade it out unless I somehow found an even skinnier one (or it gets lost or destroyed).

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I checked out of curiosity, its an Allet Original (was called classic leather when I bought it) and I've had it for 9 years. Its still in great condition, but apparently they cost almost twice as much now (I paid $35, they're $66 now).

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

What's it look like that makes it thin? I don't have a change pocket or such, but I still think my wallet is larger than needed. Tri fold wallets I never liked because they are thick as well.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

Its a very thin layer of leather on the outside and very thin layers of fabric on the inside. It is 2 credit cards tall, so depending on how many cards you have, you distribute them across 4 pockets. The billfold section is split into a shallow and a deep compartment, so you can arrange things at 2 levels, if you want. I rarely carry cash, so that part usually just has some small notes or receipts or nothing at all.

So it is partly the layout and partly the materials that keeps it thin. "Nice" wallets are usually all leather or mostly leather, which makes them much thicker and tri-folds are the worst.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I dunno, it tends to happen more when people are forced/tricked/want to provide a gift without really knowing what to get.

It's a reliable generic gift because wallets wear out, and there's usually room to switch between several.

It gets less common as you age, but it still happens unless you have the habit of refusing to switch wallets, or have talked about exactly what you want in a wallet and people realize they're better off going a different route.

I'm really particular about my wallets. Right size, right pocket configuration, right materials. I want my wallets the be able to be pulled out and I can find what I need blindfolded because of decades of familiarity. I like a licence window. I want durable materials over pretty materials, when the choice is necessary.

So, I buy my own damn wallets when one is wearing out. Nobody buys me wallets any more because I show the new ones off. Since I'm also known for saying "oh man, that's a nice wallet, that'll be what I use when this one wears out", it kinda makes it a disappointing gift to give, even though I would never say that and it not be true.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

As an adult? Never as a gift

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

no. i have had the same wallet since 2006

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I tend to be particular about my everyday carry equipment and so I think I've killed that kind of gift out of my circle. My current wallet is entering its 12th year of service in surprisingly good condition. A Big Skinny L-shape. I'm not in the habit of carrying all my airman certificates around with me anymore so if I were to replace it I'd just go with their basic nylon bifold.

Seems to be a cool company; when I bought my wallet in early 2013 the price was $26, it's now $30. I think that's slower than inflation.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I bought a Ridge over a decade ago before they went all crazy political, and beyond some wear around the edges it's held up great. Which it should, it's fucking aluminum and titanium. The elastic cash band got stretched out pretty bad over time but I contacted em for a replacement last year and they just sent me one for free.

I don't think anyone's ever bought me a wallet, which tracks with my wishes for everyday carry items honestly.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I've never bought a wallet for myself

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I keep getting wallets as gifts even though everyone knows I don't use a wallet, I have a collection of wallets that will never feel the back of my ass.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

How did you know

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I bought mine

Works well as a lanyard too, ADHD would be having me leave it everywhere if it weren't strapped to my noggin

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I have only gotten one wallet as a gift ever, it was a family heirloom of sorts. All my other wallets I have used I have bought myself

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I've done or had both, so results unclear.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

When I was younger, yeah.

I think wallets are for people nobody knows what to buy for. Like getting them a tie. No hobbies, no interests, no personal declarations of what they might like. Or people just don’t know them well enough to get anything other than some generic gift like a wallet.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I have bought most I think but I have received some as gifts too.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I've definitely gotten more as gifts than I have bought for myself (I'm a guy in his mid-40s).

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

Yes, my family gifted me my first and second wallet.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

YOU CAN BUY YOURSELF ANYTHING YOU WANT ESPECIALLY A WALLET

srry this just reads as “duh my bros is it geyy to git yerself a wallet” NO JUST BUY ONE

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

I never got one as a gift I really wanted to use. Care nothing for style, but look for practicality for me. After much trial and error have found a trifold made of sailcloth to be most lasting and useful for my sloppy wallet needs.

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