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[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 4 days ago (1 children)

One of my clients got pissed off at the slow pace of their projects, and decided to bring in a 3rd party "project partner". Tomorrow I'm having a "conversation" with Senior Leadership Team. I have a real bad feeling I'm about to be scapegoated for the failures of the project team because the project team manager is besties with my manager. I hate this feeling so fucking much.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I know exactly how that feels. We're here for you if you need it

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

I appreciate it man. Let's see how it plays out. It'd suck to be looking for a new job a few days before my birthday.

I'm OK money wise for a while, but I don't think I can do another 6 months without a job.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I'm stoned, a little faint after changing the bandage (just a non-stick one held one with normal bandaids lol) so lying on the couch. I'm such a pussy when it comes to my own body - I can watch and even help with wounds, but when it's my wound... Ugh!

Got a bag of twisties though! #winning

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Oh bummer. Hope youโ€™re not too out of sorts.

Are you busy at the moment?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago

First class survived. Donโ€™t think I made a tit of myself. Making friends seems unlikely though.

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Ordered pizza, watch some TV then bed I think. May as well speed up the time till the meeting tomorrow.

Goodnight everyone โค๏ธ

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago

You're gonna be alright friend :) ๐Ÿ’œ

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (4 children)

I guzzled the appropriate amount of water on Sunday and Monday, as my vein gushed a tad yesterday lol. First time 'round last year, the machine kept beeping because my pressure was low, because I didn't eat or drink enough.

This time, I filled that bag up quicksmart! Had a Nippy's Iced Coffee and some potato chips after. But yeah, now my elbow-pit is rather sore, I keep catastrophising and think it's still bleeding and I don't want to look, as it was when I changed the dressing yesterday (3 hours afterwards).

But! No complaints! Follow the directions and drink heaps of water!

Edit: actually, the only complaint is the bruise on my left middle finger from the haemoglobin test. I forget how much the tips of the fingers are used until one is sore ๐Ÿ˜…

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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Got a reference request from a former colleague that I did not along with.

Our work relationship was cold, at best, so it's interesting that they would want to use me a reference.

I declined politely.

They were difficult to work with and created a large amount of unnecessary work for everyone.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

you were more polite than I woulda been.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

When I say polite it was basically

'Considering our respective roles during your time here, I am not in a position to provide you with a good reference. Good luck with the job hunt'

This person still knows people in our organisation, so I didn't think to completely destroy the bridge...just in case

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Some people just suck all the air in meetings. Dude, shut the fuck up and let someone else talk!!!

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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

4 hours of karaoke. Mostly friend screaming. I am dead.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Like a goood dead or a bad dead?

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

Neutral dead.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I wish my boys could talk a bit more. Something was bothering one of them tonight and he couldn't get to sleep, I wish he could tell me what it was

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Depending on their ages, they sometimes lack the vocabulary to put their feelings into words, especially if they're new feelings or sort of vague feelings or worries. It's frustrating because it's hard to know what prompts to give to get them talking. Sounds like you're doing the right thing and you're there for them and they know that, that's all you can do sometimes.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

Tom is the best dad , along with all the other dads here. I'm sure once they can they will talk. ๐Ÿ™‚

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[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago

Got off TAFE early today. Teacher had to pick up her kid from childcare cause they couldn't be arsed dealing with a three year old's tantrum. Some bullshit about the literal toddler posing a threat to other kids.

I was hoping to get more work done today. Guess I'm getting more units extended to next week.

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Left my hat and water bottle at the office before field work and have been mega cranky and annoyed today. Not how I wanted my day to go at all, I was looking forward to field work. And the moving place I inquired with seems to have a non-working number, I missed their callback but when I call their number it keeps cutting off. Grrrrrrrrrrr. I am PEEVED!

Need to have a good shower and some feel good show for tonight.

E: I will say, going out has given me a lot more pep and energy in other ways now that I've hydrated and cooled off. I miss field work!!!! I need to make this more regular

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago (4 children)

I have watered the garden. Expect a cloudburst.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (2 children)

omg, I just had a sparrow eat from my hand ๐Ÿฅฐ

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

How does it feel to be a Disney princess?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago

I've started my shed cleanout. There is a lot of junk in there! And a lot of dirt โ˜น๏ธ If anyone is in the market for a slightly rusty hand saw let me know, I seem to have lots of them! I'm not even sure why I have some of this stuff, I'm pretty sure someone has been sneaking in and stashing stuff when I'm not looking. Couldn't possibly have been me!

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Traffic was awful heading to my social sports training tonight, but had fun once I finally got there. Hadnโ€™t been for a few weeks. Thereโ€™s just some days I need to be around a group of people. Made the drive worth it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

It just rained and now it's sunny again. It smells earthy. Time to take the rubbish out.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago

Work from home all approved and I have a nice open ended task to spend half a day on. Things are going well

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Starting piano / guitar lessons on Thursday. By that, I mean I am alternating between instruments until I pick one. Thinking of going with piano because I learnt it as a kid, but am considering guitar for something different, and also I wanna be a rockstar.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Mixed some midori with some fruit juice. Not too bad.

Now I need ice cubes.

Yep, it was that sort of a day.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (6 children)

Really bad end to the day even if it only lasted for 10-15 mins.

Not looking forward to seeing how the rest of the time goes until I go on break.

Hopefully the steps put in place for the future will prevent future altercations from occurring.

Nothing like dealing with someone who thinks the way to solve problems is to enact revenge and thinking thatโ€™s the right way of doing things.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

That's cos the game is not 'getting the work done', the game is 'being top dog'. I agree with melba that this goes nowhere good. Put on your own oxygen mask first. Good to know that steps are being taken.
EDIT: I'd put money on this person's work history being littered with similar situations.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago

revenge? There are people like that in the business world? That is crazy.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Oh no, that sounds really miserable... hope this person pulls their head in soon. I hate it when one person can ruin your whole day. When will you be going on break?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Made a thread for tomorrow :)

Just finished the first episode of British Bake Off and was good.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

Day 2 of meal replacement done. โœ…

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago (1 children)

2 more days and I'm on leave for 3. So much I need to get done before I go.

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (3 children)

That's one thing I love about my job, there is no ongoing work to manage. The moment you leave your desk the work is someone else's problem and you can just leave and forget about it.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago (3 children)

hubs has gone tomato mad, Idk what it is, something about the very Mediterranean house has woken the ancient genes. The terrace and the yard are slowly being overtaken with bushy bushy plants. The one by the front door is already 2m tall. I forsee a lot of canning in our future.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (5 children)

The new Sandwiches of History book just delivered. This will be a tasty exploration.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Morning. I had a very vivid dream in which

I was running late to workbut had borrowed a car so was trying to do everything I needed a car for while I had it, so I'd gone to a library (that looked like a stereotypical posh US high school)... was cutting it fine and trying to fat-fingerly message my colleagues to please make me a coffee, but then just as I'm trying to drive off I find out the cat (I somehow own a skinny white one) has snuck into the car, and is now trying to escape... cue increasing panic as the wriggly thing keeps getting out (and some Indonesian kid passing by takes photos of it) and then runs all around the car once I've trapped it inside and I can't drive, and I see the "typing..." animation on the group chat and I realise it's time for everyone else to leave and I'm still not there...

... so I wake up groggily to check the time on the clock and FUCK it's 6:55am? I need to leave in ten!... only to grab my phone and see it's 6:05am... and here I am, adrenaline unnecessarily coursing through my system, resolutely staying in bed until i have to get up. ๐Ÿฅฑ ๐Ÿ˜ด

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (3 children)

If anyone needs a smile, I suggest peeking into the Brisbane daily thread on here. There's an excellent series of puppy pics in there!

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Listing things on Gumtree is definitely not working out - I have had less time wasting nonsense which I guess is a plus, but that's because I have had no enquiries at all (apart from the initial two scam messages which were so quick I presume were bots).

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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago (2 children)

My holiday is over. Back to work today

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[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago

Oh man. My body hates me for trying to move around.

And Melbcat has another uti ;-;

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (11 children)

Beep Beep ๐Ÿšš
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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

So I have this art project I'm doing. omg, all the skills I need to learn to get it done. I suppose I could go very low tech and just hand write everything but I don't think that will work. There's the art skills/hand skills, like painting , composition and calligraphy, and then there's all the tech/computer skills of making the project ( it's a book ) I find the tech skills the most frustrating.

happily skills are forever and never wasted ๐Ÿ™‚

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