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If we can avoid massive collective issues that would be appreciated as there is very little agency the individual has to address those and that helpless ess can often extend to the more solvable individual matters we all grapple with but also occasionally rise to conquer.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

I have an idea for an invention, but I don't have the tools or materials to make it, nor do I have the proper space to make it. I have blueprints drawn and experts consulted on design, but not the means to actually do it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

I have 99 problems

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Unable to find love or happiness.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Have you tried drugs? They won't get you either but maybe you won't care if you're zoinked all the time.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Can't access traditional drugs. But I've tried other things. They temporarily numb the pain. But it comes back and hits even harder....

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Completely anecdotal but...

I found a lot of happiness in my my hobbies. Rock climbing has been just perfect for me.

I found my wife on tinder, so maybe give that a try.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Good for you but I doubt I'll have any luck on any dating apps.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

I do concede that I am probably not the usual. But it's probably at least worth a try.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I am looking into a career change but I've been doing the same type of job my whole career.

I have an upcoming interview for a job that sounds really interesting but I'm worried that I won't be able to highlight my transferable skills.

Does anyone have tips/suggestions?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Have ChatGPT brainstorm questions, then ask him to focus on transferable skills. Now you have an idea of what it might look like and you can think of how to explain it to ChatGPT.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

Just nailed an interview because I prepped with ChatGPT. Gave it my resume, the position I was applying for, and some of my recent accomplishments and it helped me realize that I was a stronger candidate than I thought, so I was able to use that during the interview.

Please keep in mind that at no time do I ever believe ChatGPT blindly.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

Is there some kind of project or proof of your abillity/portfolio you could bring in to showcase. Its always better if you have product to demonstrate your skills and knowledge so they can feel confident in your abillity to produce similar product for them

[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 days ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

Unfortunately I think this is one you just gotta wait out. Eventually as the older population downsizes/ moves to assisted living/ dies, houses will become available.

Also, vote for governments that view housing as a human right and not an investment.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

See if you qualify for any down payment assistance programs. Combined with an FHA loan, you could possibly get into a house with under $5k.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 days ago (3 children)
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[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I live in an increasingly dystopian capitalist world where simple necessities for life are increasingly challenging to obtain, while the pressure for higher productivity for less pay continues to increase.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Join an organisation agitating for proletarian revolution. If there aren't any near you, you can start with trade union work to build a mass of militant workers that can form the base of a political organisation.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (6 children)

TL-DR: I want dual axis solar array on my hiace rooftop

Explanation:

This video clearly states the advantage of having this feature on your solar, gives you more than 8 hrs of peak power (8:00 - 17:00) with a comparatively small surface area (perfect for space-concious application), compared to about 5 hrs laying it down flat (10:00 - 15:00)

And yes, I get it. A 30% increase in energy collection daily isn't significant to justify the maintenance that can come with actuation.

But as a guy living in a van full-time, 30% is the difference between having 2 ceiling fans on for an hr and 5 hrs through the night. Yap, full blast, it's hot here.

Further more; this video show-cases the single axis solar array, Then I started wondering, if it reaches high noon, this guy will have to I dunno, turn his car around? So that the solar panels can actuate another way around.

Surely there is a solution to this somewhere... right?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/VanLife/comments/1avrsbd/rooftop_solar_tracker/

Looks like someone out there had the same idea.

https://www.roboteos.com/shop

They're currently selling a packaged system for ~$5k, which is a bit pricey, but maybe worth if you're full time on the van life. Looks like you could probably fit 2 of these units on a typical roof, obstructions permitting. Alternatively you could do one tracker and one flat unit.

It looks like ground based 2-axis tracking systems can be found for ~$500-1k, you'd just need to bring your own expertise to mount it to the roof and program the controls yourself.

Semi-unrelated: others mentioned painting your van white (which you already have) but I'll raise you one better - consider painting it with an IR-Emissive cooling paint, e.g., https://i2cool.com/

There's unfortunately few products on the market at this time, but keep your eyes peeled.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Oof, 5k? Thanks for the insight

Edit: On further reading, I noted that the package is 400 watts of solar.

I got approx 1kw on my roof and 9.6kw of batteries, so.. five-figures dollars 😬

The original plan was extending to about 1.5kw, but then I thought having tiltable 1.5kw will be significantly better

That's why I decided to tackle the tilting problem first.

Thanks for bringing roboteos on my radar.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I'm fed up with streaming platforms and want to turn an old PC into a pirate movie streaming server. It'd be nice to have a detailed guide on what services to use, how to get it to stream to devices, and how to set up a VPN. I assume a Linux distro makes the most sense but I have no platform alleigence. I'm generally pretty competent with computers but I'd like the guide to assume I know nothing about Linux, because I my only experience is with my steam deck

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

I can help start you off if you want.

(To ward off the mods all of these suggestions are for personal photos and personal video files, created by, or for the user, and in no way am I recommending that piracy is ok or legal)

There are a few frontend/backend solutions that you can pick from that are popular and well supported.

  • plex
  • Jellyfin
  • Kodi

Plex and jellyfin are my picks as those are what I’ve used. They will work on any laptop or desktop running windows/mac/Linux (with some caveats).

The front end that you pick can be a steaming device like a Amazon fire stick, Roku, or AppleTV, this also includes smart TVs, (not all TVs support all or any) for widest support an Android tv would work).

As for where to get your media files there are a lot of options out there, but be careful (I don’t know the this instance’s stance on site recommendations so I can’t list them). As for how, torrenting is still the most popular, but not the only option. You’ll need a torrent program to get the files to download to your β€œserver”. It is also very encouraged and recommended to use a vpn while you download and seed to protect yourself.

While not expansive or detailed I hope this helps.

My Lemmy profile has my matrix ID so if you wanted to talk in a space with more privacy you can send me a message there.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (3 children)

With zero sarcasm: thank you for taking the time to write that explanation out.

However, this is kind of exactly what I'm talking about. You're saying I can use plex, or jellyfin, or kodi, with all the opperating systems (but not?) and you say I can stream to smart TVs, are Chromecasts smart? I can follow instructions, I just don't understand how this technology stack works together. Nobody even tells me what Linux distro to use!

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (5 children)

I've been living with my parents for almost 2 years now after graduating from university. Now, I have a job that pays me just enough to live off of and I've been wanting to move back to the city where I lived for University. But, my situation is as follows that prevents me from doing so. My dad has a condition, one of the worst conditions you can get, you can probably guess what it is and please don't say what it is because I don't like the word. Because of this, my dad can no longer work, and my mom has been trying to find work so I'm taking care of things. And, because of this condition, home life isn't as great as it used to be and my mental health has deteriorated to nearly nothing. I don't know what to do and how to get everything back to normal. I've been looking for apartments but how can I leave in good consciousness knowing what I'm leaving? I'm stuck and I cannot move literally and figuratively.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

Thank you all for the advice. I've made a decision and I'm going to be moving to the city. My dad is in relatively good health right now so I think we can manage. Again, thank you all. I really appreciate it

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

All of you being burnt out all the time isn’t helping anyone. You have to take care of yourself, you’ll be much better able to help and contribute to your family when you’re in a better mental and physical state. I’d suggest (as someone else did) to find a place relatively nearby so you can still help but at least have your own spacer. Good luck!

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Narcissists at work. Seriously. Manipulative fucks who are ladder climbing and have little interest in the field. They make my life harder. I currently have to deal with one at work and I know many more are up ahead. How do you handle someone who basically shows classic signs of narcissism, and controlling and toxic behavior, especially when the person themselves are not in the slightest open to the idea of changing or being wrong or seeking help.

I've tried setting boundaries, being nice, being sneaky, being absent/avoidant and nothing seems to work. This person has chosen me for some reason to be their pet or something and they get angry when I sway from the script (which is the case on a daily basis).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Malignant compliance maybe? I had a boss who kept nagging me about stuff she didn't even know how to do so I decided to give her my undivided absolute attention calling her every time I was going to do somehing, every time while I was doing it, every time after completing the task and so on.

I did this for a while and only as a last resort because I was fed up with her attitude. It worked like a charm! Lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I think that could be a helpful trick. I noticed someone else in our office did that to that person and this person got quite uncomfortable. :)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Cool! Just remember to use it sparingly and not let it become part of your personality.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

"Either they leave or I leave" would be setting a boundary. Get some other people on your side in it.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I would like to force my Luba 2 robotic mower to mow steeper terrain (almost 45 degrees). The main problem is wheel slipperiness. Current ideas:

  • some kind of net in that area for better grip
  • making wheels rougher (eg with nails).
  • rope that would constantly pull it uphill to counter force of gravity.
[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

What about adding a weight on top to make it heavier?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

You'll want to add weight and grip. I'm not certain what the wheels are like, but you may be able to either replace them or modify them for better traction. I'd see if you CSB find all terrain bike tires and cut them down.

Weight wise, you'll need to play around and see what you can add without hindering movement.

Counter suggestion, kill off the grass in the area and replace it with a creeping ground-cover. You won't have to mow, it adds ornamental value, and it's better for local wildlife.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

I wanna build a fun NN that takes as input an image of your face, and outputs your predicted weight.

If the prediction is wrong, you enter the real answer and then it will use your face and your real weight for the next round of training

I just really want to know if it's possible to guess someone's weight by their face, and think it could be a fun exercise.

It'd also be fun to see what features it extracts at various layers (e.g. age, cheek sag, double chin, eye sink, etc.)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

You'd probably want height in there as well

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