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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Programming is really not as hard as it looks to start, just don't start with C++ for the love of god lmao

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Run away from home and stay gone as soon as you can. Never talk to your parents again.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Please don't let your dad marry that cunt who'll become your absolute doom in the future. She may seem nice and warm but it's a fucking facade. She's a fucking cunt and they will destroy every inch of happiness you have.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Don't worry about school, don't go to university. Just work any job and buy the first house you can possibly afford.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Say no more often.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There will be a time when manipulative charisma will feel strangely like love and home. Don’t listen, learn what real love feels like.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Don’t listen, learn what real love feels like.

Still waiting to find out what that is or what it's supposed to feel like.

[–] bloopernova 2 points 1 year ago

It feels like joy, strength, and peace all at once.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

What ever you do in 1991 don’t go into….

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Plenty of people you love end up killing themselves.

Maybe it's not such a terrible idea to precede them and save yourself the grief of abandonment.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

No you are not.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Don't listen to what anyone else tells you.

It will never get any better for you. Only worse and worse.

Also never, ever, fall in love. The only women that will ever express any interest at all in you are mentally unstable abusers who will hurt you in ways far worse than your family ever did.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Remember those ideas you're having about living on your own and being respected by other people? Sorry, that's not gonna happen.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Dont open that site

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Don't ride your bike off that boulder...Rollerskates aren't your forte.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Don't do drugs

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Find a way to stay in touch with the guy you met by rambling about fnaf with him before middle school begins. Also you’re autistic, which DOESN’T mean you’re just dumb as it turns out (and is also the reason why you sketch fnaf maps every day), and btw you should look into that Bernie Sanders guy who the news is still kinda talking about

[–] [email protected] -5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Don't learn shit to change the world, but to become wealthy. You won't change it, so make yourself comfortable.

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