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[–] ICastFist 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Around 16 or 17. I was already aware that "studying hard" was bullshit by 13, which made my grades fall from 90-100% to just passing, which in turn led to lots of complaining from my mom until I finished high school.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

When I was getting burned out and started asking to be scheduled enough time to get my weekly tasks done, so they "silent fired" me by taking away all my tasks and putting me exclusively on the new hire jobs.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

Professionally? When I got my first non-Union job.

Personally, weirdly enough it actually has worked for me

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

I think I was 17 or 18.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Idk it just kinda worked for me

[–] Tja 1 points 5 months ago

Same here. I guess people for whom it works just aren't so loud.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

Mowing the yard for my dad as a pre-teen. I was trying to earn some extra cash and so went way above and beyond.

He acknowledged it and did pay a little more than we’d agreed to, but in no way commensurate to the extra work I put in.

I don’t mind working hard or doing extra, but I do it for me now. If interested, passionate, and engaged, then I dig deep and do more. Otherwise it’s the agreed upon work and no more.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

16, I was in highschool when it happened

[–] JackbyDev 3 points 5 months ago

I think 23 or 24.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

When I had to have a tiny mental breakdown over getting a single day off after spending the year prior doing favours for the store manager like driving the delivery truck and being the pillar that kept the fresh departments standing. Ohh and I hadn't had a holiday for 2 years.

Now I work 4 days a week by choice, I come in do my work well enough then sign off. I constantly remind them that if I'm not being actively paid by the company I see myself as unemployed and free to do what I want.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

Pretty damn old. I’m too embarrassed to say.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Way too old.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

I still do it, but I ask and get

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Oh I figured that shit out in 3rd grade.

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