afaik there are two options of why that is happening
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per default seeds will be used for cooking. You need to toggle that off in the kitchen settings.
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to get new seeds from your grown crop you need to brew alcohol from the plum helmets (and not use them for meals, but that should be off by default). So you should set up a brewer with the task of making alcohol from plum helmets.
correct me if I am wrong