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(Ladies of Kbin/Lemmy/etc!) Does a woman generally have as strong of an urge to get an orgasm compared to a man's urge to get ejaculation? (kbin.social)

submitted 6 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I believe that if a man and a woman get together and both sides get turned on, the man is more likely to be more desperate to get off.

Is it common among women though?

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[–] Lmaydev 13 points 6 months ago (3 children)

Most likely stronger.

The male orgasm is easier to achieve and pretty much guaranteed.

From what my female friends have said it can be rarer for them.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

It's a fucking chore...

Although it also depends a lot on the person. But for me, I usually get distracted and/or bored before I finish. ADHD is a bitch lol.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 6 months ago

Depends on the man. Depends on the women. Orgasm is not guaranteed for some men.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

The female orgasm is pretty easy for me to achieve alone. I can generally come within 5 minutes if I really want to.

Coming during sex is totally different, but that’s because of the other factors involved, not because female orgasms are inherently rare or difficult for everyone.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

Yeah same, it's always been between about 30 seconds and 5 minutes, with occasional "it's not gonna happen" times, and as I get older more multiples too, that didn't happen for me when young. Husband is about 3 minutes on the low end, usually 10, sometimes hour or more and still wants to get off, I would give up way before that.