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lemmy users who have achived their dreams/goal, how did you do it? (lemmy.fmhy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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even if its just one goal or dream that you achived and such, how did you do it and how did iy make you feel?

im honestly struggling to achive things i want becasue i tend to dream big so how did you all do it?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

Sure, there was hard work. A lot of time spent getting good at what I do, studying, and what not. But I'm going to be blunt: it was a lot of luck. Anyone who says otherwise is probably lacking insight.

Luck in having the circumstances where I was able to focus enough efforts and have the energy to do so. Luck in encountering the right opportunity and people along the way.

Not trying to downplay effort, but a lot of comments make it seem like all you have to do is work hard and you'll get rewarded. Sometimes you totally will. And other times you'll crash and burn or be taken advantage of.