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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 9 months ago

One day between two jobs I worked 20 hours straight in a row unexpectedly, including a night shift I was wholly unprepared for, and when my husband picked me up and we got home, it was so icy on the ground on the passenger side of the car that I asked him to carry one of my bags in because it was heavy and I was afraid I'd slip. He ripped it out of my hand, snarled "What are you fucking handicapped?", and I called him a sociopath and went to bed, whereupon he woke me up four hours later "so I didn't waste the entire day".

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