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[–] [email protected] 58 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Something to keep in mind next time you're thinking of supporting a local book seller. Luckily there's other options around.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 9 months ago (5 children)

American here. This really makes me think twice before supporting a local business. Its not really something i have thought of or considered before. Independant book stores tend to be more liberal. But i see otherwise here. Wow.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

There was an independent coffee roaster I used to buy from that started referring to the pandemic as a "plandemic" then included graphic religious propaganda with their orders.

And small businesses are sometimes worse in terms of wage theft and ignoring labour laws, probably because they think they are small enough that nobody will notice.

But it's a case by case basis, of course.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

Craziness comes in all shapes and forms, I'm surprised as well; As you're right that bookstores generally do seem more progressively minded.

I'd feel confident in saying many others are completely fine to shop at.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I don't disagree that this is infuriating, but bigotry isn't "craziness", it's a well established system of oppression that greatly benefits some over others. We can only tackle it once we acknowledge what it is.

[–] Lmaydev 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

I think the fact it's viewed as craziness is good tbh.

When I was young this wasn't really a thing to talk about. It was just how things were.

That people look at them and think what a stupid naxi is great.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

The fact it’s viewed as "craziness" is ableist, as well as counterproductive.

Conflating harmful actions with lack of intelligence* does everyone a disservice. To suggest that “stupidity”* that is what makes people act badly undermines any real accountability. The causes of problematic behavior rarely have anything to do with mental acuity, and we can’t properly address harmful behavior while being so reductive about its causes. Carelessness, bias, hatred, greed, closed-mindedness, indifference – these are the traits that lead to oppression. Our intelligence* is not the issue so much as our sense of compassion and justice.

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*or mental illness

[–] Lmaydev 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I would argue that intelligence plays a huge role in things like racism. You can see a clear divide when you take into account education levels.

You don't have to be disabled to have low intelligence and id argue conflating those two is ableist.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

And I would state for a fact that you're being an ableist (not only in your insistence of intelligence being related to racism, or the ridiculous idea that education levels have anything to do with so called intelligence, but also in your framing of disability as a negative thing which I should not be calling people. As a disabled person - fuck you), and also harming the fight against racism, a system which is not only perpetuated by people throughout society, but was created by those in power, who are almost never what you would call "stupid".

You can continue to double down in defence of your own ego, or you could challenge your bias, admit that you don't know everything about everything, and actually listen to people who know what they're talking about:

https://liminalnest.wordpress.com/2018/06/23/intelligence-is-a-myth-on-deconstructing-the-roots-of-cognitive-ableism/

https://affinitymagazine.us/2018/01/08/stop-using-intelligence-based-insults-if-you-care-about-disabled-people/

https://disabledfeminists.com/2009/10/23/ableist-word-profile-intelligence/

https://web.archive.org/web/20230605065733/https://ollibean.com/intelligence-is-an-ableist-concept/

[–] Lmaydev 1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I'm also disabled and my disabilities are 100% negative. They fucking suck and make my life very difficult.

Intelligence isn't a myth. My partner made me watch love island.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Who would have thought that learning leads to a more progressive outlook on life?

[–] [email protected] 18 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

European here. Yeah small business owners can be major assholes as well. Here in Europe I’ve experienced more racism from small independent mom and pops, not only book shops, than in large corporate chains. And these shops are still surprised that people rather shop online.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago

I used to order pizza from a small local business until I went there in person and all 3 TVs in the place had Newsmax at full volume. Last time I went there.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Why would one example, not even from your country, make you think twice? Get a grip.