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Daily Discussion Thread: Sun 07 Jan 2024 (aussie.zone)

submitted 10 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yeah she's not interested, if she was she would have responded with > 0 by now.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (3 children)

What's > 0? She's been replying like once every 12-15 hrs anyway. I'll probably give up if I don't hear back tonight. 💁‍♂️

Is it worth texting one more time or just let it be?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago

The ball is in her court, which is very apt

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

"> 0" means greater than 0. Meaning if she was interested she would have replied with at least something.

As for the previous frequency, this only proves my point even more. Now that you are trying to make this "real" it's radio silence.

Personally I would do nothing. You've put the ball in her court and she's not returning the serve it seems (yes I made a tennis pun).

I personally wouldn't text her if it was me at this point. It's not worth your dignity.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Don't give up after one message. Especially since you had obvious rapport.... she wasn't talking to you for no reason.

Be prepared for it to be a sign she's not interest. But there's no reason to jump to conclusions yet.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yeah we had a good conversation going. I just feel sad, why am I so invested in this?? Also, do you mean maybe leave her another message before giving up?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Don't message again. It makes you look desperate. Move on and if she gets back to you, great. If not, whatever.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Yeah, that's what I thought as well but was confused by Pilk's comment.