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You are young, and that is normal.
My advice is to remind yourself that girls are people, too. If I focus on the fact that I'm talking to a person, and I ignore the fact that that person is a girl, then I find that I act more normally around them. I think the girls appreciate that, too, since if you act uncomfortable, then they will feel uncomfortable too.
It's important for relationships to treat each other as a person first. Later on it's important to treat someone like a person when it's appropriate and an object only when they want to. It's a hard skill to do especially when young and horny