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[serious] What are your most important boundaries you've learned to enforce? (lemmy.world)

submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Nobody tells me what I'm going to do or where I will be going and when that happens

I am open to invitations or requests or suggestions where my involvement is desired or ostensibly necesary for somone else. But I will never respond to this as a statement of fact or in the form of a threat

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[+] [email protected] -7 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Boundary

Description of boundary, please consider this example so its easy to visually index the boundaries and help find where to jump in or look at for everyone

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Sure. Just so long as you remember that everybody is free to just not participate in this thread if they aren't in the mood to follow a particular formatting.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I respect that. I genuinely appreciate your engagement here in the way you have 😊 I do recognize the irony/paradox here but it can work

I'll keep it around anyway and everyone's free to marinate and chime in whenever they are able. Its a really important topic, as I'm learning more and more each day.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Throwing in random uncommon words doesn't make you look smart, it makes you look like a pretentious douche.