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submitted 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

This time of year is meant to be filled with joy and family get-togethers, but not everyone has family or anything to be happy about. So are you ok?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Fuck no, I have 4 years of industry experience and my industry is basically falling apart. I haven't been able to find work since March. Even construction labour jobs requiring no experience wont call me back. If I cant make something work soon I might just decide to french kiss an electrical socket.

Update:

I found a job. It does not pay that well but its in my industry and there are great individual liberties that come with the job. It took 18 months, getting EI, running out of EI, and being forced to throw out/sell a bunch of my stuff and rent out my home to overcome this. If I were most other people without the support system I have available to me, I'd be fucking homeless. Fuck the status quo.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Please don't do that. I know it would be hard to, but maybe try looking for a different carrer path if you can. Just don't give up, please.

[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 10 months ago

The horror isn't in killing yourself, the horror is living in hell so that other people can feel good that you're suffering instead of dead.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Unless you are in retail, this is the worst time of year for find work. Just wait until everyone gets back in the office after the new year and you should see a lot more opportunities and responses. Just hold on man.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago