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[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I have a wife, daughter, and son. My daughter is queer. My son is a teen. There isn't a future here for them. My daughter, especially, will be in danger.

I've had to cut all contact with my family.

We've been saving since 2020.

If it was just me, I'd stay.

I pass as a bearded white guy good ol boy. The shit I hear. These people aren't coming back. Even if nothing happens with the next election, I don't know how they rejoin reality.

I don't know what happens to this country. I kind of hope there is a bloodless balkanization.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Man, this hit home for me. I'm a queer woman and I know my dad worries about me tremendously. I don't really have anything to add to the conversation, just wanted to comment. Hopefully things won't get too bad...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

For your old man's sake, have a plan. Have a go-bag, include SS card and birth certificate. Try and keep your vehicle 3/4 full. Chances are, you will have time to run to a safe state on one of the coasts. Pre-plan two routes, one for back roads and the other for highways and interstates, print it out. If you can, keep a minimum of $500 on hand and more like $1-2k.

I strongly recommend a handgun, take it to the range and practice enough to be proficient loading and shooting at 7 yards. A single woman is usually welcomed at ranges. Just don't talk politics and if anyone asks, you've got a bad ex-husband. The more straight you appear, the easier it will be.

Sorry for the unsolicited advice/novel. Stay safe.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Haha, no worries. I appreciate it, stranger. Thankfully, I currently reside in California and I have Canadian citizenship to fall back on, so I'm not too worried if shit does manage to hit the fan that hard.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 9 months ago

Dang, you're in about as good a place as you can be then.

I hope I'm just an alarmist old fart. If so, my family ends up with a better life anyhow.