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Another player who was at the table during the incident sent me this meme after the problem player in question (they had a history) left the group chat.

Felt like sharing it here because I'm sure more people should keep this kind of thing in mind.

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[–] JackbyDev 23 points 11 months ago (29 children)

The amount of people in this thread who assume everyone with any type of disability or difference in ability would even want to have their condition corrected is shocking. Why is it impossible to imagine a blind person who doesn't want their vision fixed for no other reason than they believe they're fine as is? Why is that such a difficult thing to grasp? Just because free magical heal exists doesn't mean everyone automatically wants it. You don't need to turn to other explanations about why it might not be trusted or affordable when you can just say "this person is blind and doesn't particularly care to be able to see."

[–] [email protected] 15 points 11 months ago (22 children)

I would guess that the vast amount of people with serious disabilities, paraplegic, blind, deaf, would jump at the opportunity to correct their issues.

That would go doubley so for someone who lives in a d&d style world with far greater dangers and less accomodations than our own.

[–] JackbyDev 13 points 11 months ago (20 children)

Yes, but not everyone would. There are deaf people in our world today who don't want to be able to hear.

https://www.insider.com/why-deaf-people-turn-down-cochlear-implants-2016-12

[–] [email protected] 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

A big part of this is that the existing technology ISN'T a magic fix. It has side effects, it works differently than traditional hearing does and this requires long periods of adjustment and learning to bear with it. Literally being able to magic your hearing back to what it naturally should be doesn't have those significant downsides.

[–] JackbyDev 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It doesn't matter, there are still plenty of people who enjoy their deafness in and if itself and don't see it as something to fix.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I need to see some accounts of this, the reasoning behind this. Because it is unfathomable.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

To you. That's a you problem.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 months ago

Yes? That's why I asked for accounts so I could try to understand?

Try engaging with people without looking for "gotchas".

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