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Who cares about red flags in people. What are your green flags (lemm.ee)

submitted 10 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 31 points 10 months ago (1 children)

No particular order:

Being a furry/furry sympathetic.
A science major of any kind. IMO the S needs more love in STEM.
Ever overhear them say "walkable" in a positive light.
Hobbies besides media consumption
Not "too cool" to learn something. Likes learning for fun.
Not to concerned with looking cool or badass, either. Look at CHUDs, I made a joke the other day that I can sense a decent bit of residual 90's 'tude in modern CHUDDery, and I think I'm onto something.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Likes learning for fun.

where do I find other people like this? where am I supposed to go?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Makerspaces? Maybe just hang around at bars near your local conference/convention center?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Makerspaces? Maybe just hang around at bars near your local conference/convention center?

I'll feel weird and out of place. But I guess I have nothing better to do. lol

and I gotta hope no gross chuds pick on me

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (3 children)

To nerd forum, i guess, like LessWrong.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 10 months ago

don't go there

[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago

Nah that site’s full of subtly (and sometimes overtly) unnerving techbros

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

seems like a place where there'd be very few women. lol

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

One of my least favorite things about my ex is that she hated learning. Like why? The world has cool things, why would you not like learning about ANYTHING? You don't realize how much it sucks to date someone that is unwilling to learn new things for fun until you deal with it.