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Is it possible to exhaust a core memory to the point that it is no longer as meaningful to you? (lemm.ee)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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When thinking about the most important moment(s) of your life, do you still feel the full range of emotion associated with that memory? What if you keep recalling the same memory many times, does the intensity of emotion fade?

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Only if they are good. The bad ones you have to keep forever and relive it every time a minor inconvenience happens

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Talk to a therapist. Not just you, everyone.

We all have trauma, talking about it can help you come to peace with it. Then it won't be this cringe thing (or whatever negative emotion it invokes) in your thought pattern.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Well.. Sometimes, even the bad ones, the worst ones, can be exhausted too.