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Seeking to understand speaker phone use in public (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I'm traveling with family this weekend in a touristy place and have been out in public in crowded areas. I am really shocked by the number of people who have loud, personal conversations on the phone in speaker mode. This ranges from walking down the sidewalk, to in line for washrooms, to seated restaurant dining.

I've heard people say that it's because the phone speaker breaks (for their ear) but I've never had that happen in all the years I've destroyed phones and never had a friend or colleague say that happened. Other people say it's because the glass is cracked and they worry about cutting their face, etc.

My personal bias is this is inconsiderate but then I ask myself how is it different from talking to a person next to them, say. I'm willing to be change my mind here.

People who do this, please explain what's going on so I can sleep at night. :)

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My mother does this. She says it's because she can't hear it when she puts it up to her ear. I think she's just not positioning the phone correctly to her ear. I've bought her headphones and headsets, but she's a retired old lady that's technologically challenged so she's pretty much never going to stop it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My mother has hearing aids which are terrible with any phone so I told her to use speaker phone but the idea of using the phone when not at home unless it's an emergency is still pretty far out there for her. :)

[–] Hexarei 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My boss got hearing aids that connect via Bluetooth to his phone. It was always kinda funny to start talking to him and have him put a finger up to indicate you should wait while he turns off his music lol

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I have often thought about how people today will be fine with hearing aids while people in my parents generation are obsessed with hiding them or not using them when they should because they don't want people to know that need them.

Those tiny hearing aids are hard to work with (changing the batteries, finding them of they go missing, etc). I'll be wearing headphones anyway, why not use them in hearing aid mode?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Regular headphones are cheaper than hearing aids