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Do you think monogamy will always be the main "form" of earth or do we just break someday this code and just "do whatever we want" (lemmy.world)

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Will this one-by-one system forever be our main thing or do you think we will break monogamy and maybe "team up" as groups or something?

And yeah polygamy is a thing but do you think it will catch on to "the upper class"?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I, after some admittedly short research found averages for monogamous relationships (including marriage) anywhere from 18 months to around 4 years. Which surprised the heck out of me. I've been Polyamorous for the last 24 years and the shortest relationship I've had in that time is 6 years. Most of my poly friends are also in quite long term relationships but that may just be a function of the friends I make.

This is also an entirely anecdotal response to your experiences as well.