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For me a few factors would be prevalent, I'd have several questions to ask myself.
What type of commuting? If you're driving, that's a very large time sink of 9 hours a week with little opportunity to do anything worthwhile with it. But if you're on a train, then maybe you can work some entertainment and enhancement into your commute time because you have the gift of attention, and that time wouldn't go fully to waste. Buy a Steam Deck and play games on the way in and home. Or bring a novel to read. Or find some professional development materials online to bring with you, and skill up as you travel. Anything but allowing that time to bleed into the void.
Might your company be open to giving you more home working time? Even three days at home weekly versus two is a HUGE quality of life difference. One day office, or fully remote, even better still. If your role definitely doesn't have to be physically there, and you would save your company office space for other uses, you may be able to make a pretty good business case, if you can find the tangible wins for your employer.
Failing all that, I'd check around to see if I could land a similar role at a different company that allowed full remote or less office time. Even if you take a slight pay cut, remember that reclaiming that commute time is valuable (both in the time itself and the lessening of expenses, like wear and tear and fuel for a vehicle, or 150 round trip train tickets and external lunches a year, et cetera) and should be weighed into what you're "really" making.
Above all, if you decide a change is in order, have your new thing lined up first. The economy is tightening almost everywhere right now and if you're unemployed, it can take quite a while to get a preferable new job lined up. Do that work on the side while in your current job if you decide to do it.
Apologies for the book, this is just fresh for me, I was doing all of this analysis up until a few months ago, when my company pivoted from three days a week in the office (which was wrecking me) to two days a month, solving my dilemma. We're obviously not the same people with identical lives, but I thought some insight from someone who'd recently had the same situation might help. Best of luck to you!