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Edit2: It's a subjective perception I'm talking about. Are you offended? Why?

What's the matter, why can't men deal with me being sensitive and emotional? Is it because they struggle with me reminding them of having, too, emotions?

Edit: Do men think I'm weak when I show emotions? If so, why?? Why do women see it as a sign of strength when men are vulnerable, but men don't seem to get it? Are they/are we dumb??

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Those men have issues of their own. We're often raised to be stoic. Many men are instilled with this idea that crying makes you weak, and that men aren't supposed to be weak from a young age. It makes many of us men absolute pieces of shit, IMO. It's the very foundation of toxic masculinity.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Eh, I hate the phrase toxic masculinity.

Some people are assholes. Men are assholes, and women are assholes. Don't blame it on their gender.

[–] Nashua 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It’s not the gender being referred to as toxic, rather the societal expectation for men to behave a certain way - tougher, harder, to not show weakness through expressing emotion. Toxic masculinity can come from people of any gender.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Not to mention, toxic masculinity hurts men just as much as it hurts the people around them.

Men are victims of patriarchy too.

I hate that terms like toxic masculinity have been poisoned by such frequent misuse.

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