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Every time I read this I cringe. Because most of the time this comes from someone that cant really judge that. You dont seem to know each other for a long time or have a deep connection.
Besides that I wish both of you the best and maybe it turns out as some of the positive stories in the other comments. Or not. Both are ok.
I suspect people often mistake 'chilled out' or 'doesn't enjoy partying much' as mature.
True but not in this case, I'm looking at it from a world-views and emotional understanding point of view.
Its true that I don't know her for long, she seems mature from my short time with her but I know it doesn't say much