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I only realized after breaking up. The first girl loved to talk me down, saying some of the stuff I liked was "just a phase". The second was super manipulative, to the point I often wondered if I should start writing stuff down.
That’s the worst when a partner can make you doubt yourself
Yeah. Somewhat ironically, my dad also had to deal with a partner gaslighting him a few years ago.