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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (4 children)

This is just training yourself to have awful sex.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I dunno people keep saying porn makes you have weird expectations from sex but I've never once met a person that wants sex exactly like it is in porn.

I mean I'm sure it happens but I don't think it's this epidemic people are making it out to be.

Also don't watch mainstream porn, go for the homemade stuff, it tends to be much more natural.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I know what I like so I'm going with that and I try my best to learn what my partner likes. It's definitely not ever the spiderman, upside down bullshit with my foot on her head or whatever absolutely bat-shit crazy stuff they do as if it were normal lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

A number of porn positions are used solely for the purpose of exposing the genitalia to the camera, e.g. like the spiderman. Camera work is the only reason anyone would fuck like that, it's horribly uncomfortable

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Even then it is better to build up arousal and excitement over time to reach higher peaks of ecstasy.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

When I first started masturbating I learned the start and stop method on the internet. Can’t imagine anything else.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not unless you are a nematode..

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A type of worm which can literally have sex with itself

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago
[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

thats crazy in my book. jerking off is just getting self satisfaction, no connection, no sensuality, I mean you're alone with a screen.

actual sex is amazing, and I'm not apeing what my phone screen shows, I'm really drawing it out and enjoying every little nuance. most of the porn I've watched has next to nothing to do with what decent sex is actually like