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In dates or other social situations:

• treating service staff badly
• talking about themselves to exclusion of all other topics
• ordering for you without your input
• acting as if they're doing you a favour by dating you.
• quotes anything from incel, MGTOW, or other manosphere sources
  • especially Joe Rogan
• freeze peach fanatic
• uses words like "woke" or any of the other alt-right bugaboos without ironic intent
• acts like the word "feminist" is a dirty word
• uses racial slurs
• "Asian women are my fetish" (yes, I've had people—plural—use that with me)
• volunteers religious identity without it being the topic of discussion
• toxic negativity
• toxic positivity
• doesn't read
• doesn't listen to music
• has no opinions that aren't slogans

... and a cast of thousands ...

Wow. I've built up quite the suit of armour over the years.