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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

i don't know anything about harvest moon, but you said something that stood out for me.

i thought it was neat that you could flirt with anyone in that game, but that's as far as i got with that. i assume, though, that you can pursue relationships with anyone and that it's totally not an issue at all. that's the impression i got, and i thought that was pretty cool. didn't come off as anything political when i saw it at the time, though, i just figured it was the inevitable evolution of characters in fiction. i miss my old naivity.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago

iirc, there was one old harvest moon game where you played as a woman and you could marry a guy OR live forever with your female bestie. i don't remember if that one made it to the english speaking world.

stardew valley really upped the game when the guy who made it decided it'd be no big deal if you wanted to pursue a same sex relationship in it. now it feels like a standard of the genre to let you do that, and it really wasn't always like that. other games did it, too, but it still felt exceptional back then.

(but, yeah, the gay thing was a big deal for me personally, especially at the time sdv came out. i don't know if it was generally a big deal for most players, but that's definitely a reason for it to catch a certain sort of player's eye back when it was first becoming popular.)