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Not me, but I used to work a role at a company that provided IT services and hardware/support.
We had a team that sat right behind me, basically they supported customer accounts, and they got a new team leader/manager.
She came in on a Friday I believe and the rest of the team were out, Thursday night is party night so most people worked from home Friday.
The next week comes in, IT puts all her equipment on her desk, she isn't there. The next day or so comes around and she isn't there but her team is and someone else strolls over to chat. He mentions he heard they got a new lady boss, where is she?
I say she was in last week, I saw her.
"Is she a looker?"
... this bloody place. Asks nothing about her other than her looks.
Later that week IT comes along and collects her equipment, she had left in under a week. I have no idea what happened but that was the quickest I have seen someone leave and on average we had a very short staff turnover time.
Somewhat common to take any job if youre desperate, but keep interviewing. Sounds like she had at least two jobs lined up at once, and her second, and likely better, job got back to her the same day she started with your company.
Sounds like she made the right call.