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[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think this ignores part of the problem some younger guys have expressed which is their perspective partner still expect the guy to earn more and that's increasingly not the case.

A lot of men have no idea what feminism entails so they aren't aware that it calls not just for the adjustment in expectations and attitudes for men but for women as well. Clarifying what feminism is could fix a bunch of minor issues.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

True. The intersection between patriarchy and capitalism creates these expectations and equally makes them unachievable for most people.

Feminism as an ideology attempts to tackle and deconstruct both of these, freeing us from those unachievable expectations.

I've been getting a lot of use outta this quote today from bell hooks.

"It is obvious that many women have appropriated feminism to serve their own ends, especially those white women who have been at the forefront of the movement; but rather than resigning myself to this appropriation I choose to re-appropriate the term “feminism,” to focus on the fact that to be “feminist” in any authentic sense of the term is to want for all people, female and male, liberation from sexist role patterns, domination, and oppression"