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[–] [email protected] 128 points 4 days ago (6 children)

Lab-grown rocks

When I was getting married a few years ago, I remember thinking fuck real diamonds lab-grown are literally the same thing. I remember getting some push back from some weirdos about how "real" diamonds are some how better or how people will think I'm a cheapskate or how people will feel bad for my wife...

Well, fast forward a few years and literally nobody cares, thinks about, or has said anything negative about my wife's ring. We are both 1000000% happy and satisfied with the decision to buy lab grown.

[–] [email protected] 58 points 4 days ago (3 children)

We said fuck diamonds entirely, even lab grown, and even had to go out of our way to find something that didnt have diamonds on it somehow

[–] [email protected] 40 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Fucking noice, dude. 👏 Honestly, yeah, why even diamonds. They brainwashed us good.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Women love diamonds for their wide range of industrial applications.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Like making pickaxes and mining obsidian?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

it's actually a quote from Portal, or marketing material thereof.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 4 days ago

Mostly because they dont get scratched. Theyre pretty neat. Not blood diamonds though, those are a crime against humanity.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago

We have tattoos.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I got us bare tungsten carbide bands. If "Diamonds are forever", then tungsten carbide is 9.5/10ths of forever, and it's the whole band instead of just a small easily-detachable part of it. More practically, it won't get beat to hell like the white gold ring from my first marriage. Plus, if I ever need a really strong connector for jury-rigging something, I'm now carrying one with me at all times!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Tc won't scratch, but it is brittle though.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

So are diamonds, but hey - don't pollute my symbol with your facts! As far as romance is concerned, hardness == durability, end of story :P

[–] [email protected] 32 points 4 days ago (1 children)

When it's time for children I recommend lab grown as well!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (4 children)
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[–] [email protected] 36 points 4 days ago

Why don't you have a seat right over here.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

username checks out.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Username checks out

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 days ago (2 children)

We decided on some cheap silver rings. We really didn't want to carry around something extremely valuable everywhere. Go swimming and lose 5000€ in the lake? Do some yard work and lose your diamond ring there? Getting mugged and the robber is getting something really expensive? No, thank you.

Expensive wedding rings & jewelery did make sense in the past when women were not allowed their own money, bank accounts etc. as a way to escape an abusive husband. Pawn your expensive wedding ring, get cash for the getaway. But we're not living in the 50s, my wife has her own bank account, is earning her own money, so no need for something like that.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

We did the same. Some silver bands from a local artist.

Paid off when one was lost. The artist was still available for a new order.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

We decided on some cheap silver rings. We really didn’t want to carry around something extremely valuable everywhere. Go swimming and lose 5000€ in the lake? Do some yard work and lose your diamond ring there? Getting mugged and the robber is getting something really expensive? No, thank you.

Yeah, on a similar note it is really nice to finally have a new phone, but I'll miss the fact that losing my old phone would only set me back $50.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

I gave my wife an engagement ring with natural diamonds, but it belonged to my great-grandmother who died in the 1940s, so I didn't feel that there was an ethical issue.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

I've unfortunately lost my wedding ring in palladium. My wife is planning to offer me a new one but this time I want a steel ring made by a local jeweler.

Not because it is cheaper but because I am using my money in the right place.

Precious metal/stones is a social flex saying "Look ! I can afford the labor of X African slaves that have worked in the mine to extract this mineral" (plus the ecological impact of mining)

I'd rather spend money to buy the labor of a local artisan than buy African slave labor through a myriad of intermediaries

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Same. My SO's ring looks great and easily looks 20 to 50x what it actually costs. We get to spend the savings on a honey moon with no compromises.