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What's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one? (lemmy.ml)

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My partner used to be very frustrating like that. She'd rock up 30-60 minutes late to do something and then always have reasons or excuses why, some better than others. All it takes is for you have the common courtesy to tell me, rather than leave me to get increasingly irritated over the course of an hour when I can basically do nothing. Thankfully, things improved a lot after some particularly crummy instances.