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My opinion on this, it fully depends.
I fully agree that people should be empathetic to people with kids because there are events that are outside of their control. This being said I don't think they should be sympathetic to it. At the end of the day it isn't that person's problem that someone else has a kid, so therefore they shouldn't be affected by it. Being said the world isn't a perfect place and if you straight out don't show any sympathy period you're going to make enemies Having a kid should not be a get out of jail free card for any type of commitment, no if ands or buts.
Since you mentioned the professional World I'll keep it more leaning towards that, a worker with a kid should not be getting preferable treatment to someone without a kid unless it is something that is directly out of that person's control. A kid being sick is one thing, leaving early due to a doctor's appointment is a whole different thing. They make sick days and they make vacation days for that, if the company is willing to work around your appointments that's great, but that should be a treatment that they are given to everyone regardless of if you have a kid or not.
As for the lunch example that you gave, without getting too far off topic I firmly believe that that shouldn't be happening. Regardless of if you have a kid or not. Depending on your contract you're entitled to a lunch, and in most companies that lunch is unpaid. If I'm not being paid my company is not going to dictate what I'm doing. Lunch period Is very often the period that I use to be able to do the things like what you mentioned such as going to the store or going to the bank, that's none of my employers buisness what I'm doing during that time.
in the professional World shit happens, managers will give preferable treatment to people they like and to the more efficient workers. Some managers also struggle to see the difference between empathy and sympathy and go a little too far in worker preference, this doesn't mean that it's right. This is a human trait, it's against our nature to go against it. However as cold-hearted as it sounds employees life outside of the job should not be a problem of the employer. I'm not saying they should be the first one on The Chopping block, but I am saying that if that worker is less efficient, or ends up working less than higher other workers, the fact that they have a kid at home should not be taken into account.
Please note that this post is not including if your country has laws prohibiting certain actions. Such as in the US FMLA states that once the worker has been with the company for a year they can be entitled to up to 6 months of job protected unpaid leave as long as it's being used by one of their eligible statuses, and one of these is if I remember my paperwork is caretaking of a dependant or immediate family
"A kid being sick is one thing"
You just wrecked your whole argument and put the flaw to OP and all the kid-free people here.
If your opinion is that "a kid being sick is one thing" then all we're talking about here is degree of consideration, not whether to consider or not.
OP and others here are acting like having a kid is some get out of work card. "This one weird trick drives bosses insane!!"
It very well may be the case that parents get a little more grace, but chances are that the boss has kids too. Because it starts with "a kid being sick is one thing."