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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I have seen people express how weird they find people wanting to eat alone occasionally throughout my life, and even had some volunteer to eat with me "so I wouldn't be alone". When I say that I wanted to eat alone, they expressed genuine concern that it is weird to not want company. If I let them sit and talk then they feel good about themselves and leave me alone for a bit.

Honestly the pressure I got from being pestered about eating alone ended with me just eating lunch at my desk and I absolutely love work from home. Going out with coworkers once a month was plenty. They are fun and all, but most times I just want eating to be when I take a break from other people.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

Depending on your situation, a big fuck off size pair of noise cancelling headphones (or if budget doesn't allow, just headphones that looks noise cancelling), and being as absorbed into your screen as possible usually works. When I eat lunch on my own, I sometimes even furiously type out a long winded rambling and incomprehensible email to myself to make it look like I'm super busy. The people who see eating by yourself as a bad or concerning thing usually don't see treating lunch as a work catch-up hour as a bad thing