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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Not the list, but the way you described them, as if these were things that actually happen...

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

This is part of the thing. If we on the Left can't have an honest discussion about things that do happen, then it is incredibly hard for anyone not already "on side" to take us seriously.

trans women being reassigned to women’s prisons and then assaulting the women etc https://www.economist.com/united-states/2024/09/26/americas-growing-row-over-policies-for-transgender-prisoners "Tremaine Carroll, a transferred inmate serving 25 years to life for violent crimes, was charged with raping two women in ccwf and faces trial soon; Carroll denies the charges. In 2022 an inmate moved to Rikers Island women’s prison in New York received a seven-year sentence for attempted rape."

This is a tricky issue, trans women in men's prisons are also at risk. But to straight up deny these things happen and deny the existence of non transphobic concerns, well, that's hard to take seriously.

a 6"2, 220lb woman practically murdering her handball oppoisition

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2SJYdXj7Kac&ab_channel=WilsonB9000

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hannah_Mouncey

Murder was hyperbole, probably inappropriate. But damn, she is just so much bigger than her entire team and everyone on the opposition in all of those clips. (She also dominates in Aussie rules football.)

some fairly sketchy research practices by some of the authorities (WPATH) on the subject https://www.economist.com/united-states/2024/06/27/research-into-trans-medicine-has-been-manipulated

The whole article is discomforting and worth reading. But, while WPATH (what is supposed to, and claims to be and independent science based organization) was creating their guidelines: "But an email in October 2020 from WPATH figures, including its incoming president at the time, Walter Bouman, to the working group on guidelines, made clear what sort of science WPATH did (and did not) want published. Research must be “thoroughly scrutinised and reviewed to ensure that publication does not negatively affect the provision of transgender health care in the broadest sense,” it stated. Mr Bouman and one other coauthor of that email have been named to a World Health Organisation advisory board tasked with developing best practices for transgender medicine."

Again, I'm generally on board with trans rights etc but to say there aren't issues just makes it that much harder to take us at face value.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

This is a tricky issue, trans women in men's prisons are also at risk

"Also at risk"

The fact that you equate cherry picked single instance anecdotes as comparable to entrenched violence and discrimination against trans folk as being somehow comparable is the part that makes it transphobia.

Murder was hyperbole

It was, yeah. Despite her "murdering" the opposition, from the very article you linked, Australia finished 5th.

There are 7 players on a handball team. She scored 23 goals across 6 games, for an average of just under 4 goals per game (3.83 to be specific).

The total goals scored by Australia in those games was 160, which works out to an average of 3.81 per Australian player across those 6 games. Her "murdering" of her opponents consisted of having a 0.02% higher average than her team mates.

The fact that you parrot lines like "murdering" and look at videos designed to make it look open and shut, whilst not bothering to investigate the reality of the situation is what makes it transphobic.

The whole article is discomforting and worth reading. But, while WPATH (what is supposed to, and claims to be and independent science based organization) was creating their guidelines:

An article posted on the economist, who has Helen Joyce, a vocally transphobic journalist as one of their senior staff. Linking to an article that has been mostly circulated on various transphobic websites, calling out WPATH for being biased and getting in the way of evidence based research? Whilst defending the Cass review, which has been widely called out by many international medical bodies for its own bias and inconsistent approach to evidence.

The fact that you're worried about WPATH as the real issue here is telling...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You are misunderstanding.

Most reasonable, casual folks, who aren't up on who Helen Joyce is or other trans poli sco lore, these are all fairly reasonable takes. The Economist is generally regarded as one of the most reputable papers around and for good reason.

I've also not presented my beliefs, just "here's some pretty mainstream concerns." I made that pretty clear in my opening statement (and pointed out that pretty much this exactly would happen.)

You've clearly encountered these arguments before (definitely didn't watch the video which is fucking sympathetic). I'm not making these arguments.

I'm saying that reasonable people, who read one of the most reputable papers in the world can in fact have reservations on some trans issues. I can disagree with them but it's not just bigotry.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yes, they're designed to seem that way.

Which is why I earlier stated that my issue wasn't with listing them, but specifically, the way you presented them.

I've also not presented my beliefs

You used the word "murdering" to describe a transgender woman playing sports with other women, despite her playing at a level comparable to them.

You absolutely presented your beliefs.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You used the word "murdering" to describe a transgender woman playing sports with other women, despite her playing at a level comparable to them.

Oh come off it. Watch the video, she's a damn head taller than almost everyone she's playing against and God knows how many ppunds heavier.

If we don't want to be the crazy side we have to come to terms with arguments about issues, even important ones, not being only good or evil.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I went through the numbers to highlight her performance is on par with the rest of her team, and you still think that I'm being unreasonable

As I said, you presented your position quite clearly, which is why I called you out

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I don't think you're unreasonable, you have more context than myself and any other casual North American sports fan who (shockingly!) hasn't learned the points per game rates of Aussie rules footie. BUT, for most who have a casual understanding of sports, seeing someone a foot taller than their competition makes us go "huh, that seems wild."

As we do when reading one of the most reputable papers in the world raising concerns about transgender health science methodology.

(For what it's worth, in my personal experience of playing mid level co-ed rec league sports in a large liberal city for awhile, I've played against a few teams, mostly their trans player was the best woman on their team and by not a small margin. We don't give a shit because, like I said, mid level co-ed rec league sports.)

The fact you feel compelled to "call out" someone trying to sincerely answer a reasonable question kinda speaks volumes.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

someone trying to sincerely answer a reasonable question

Yeah, that's why you linked to transphobic hit pieces and described trans women in sports with hugely emotionally loaded terms

Because you're reasonable

As I said from the beginning, your comment was fine unti you let some of your more transphobic opinions out in the final paragraph. That paragraph was not "reasonable"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

If you're at the point where you're calling articles in ond of the most reputable papers on Earth "transphobic hit pieces", you need go re-evaluate.

Edit: there's a reason trump always screams about the crooked media for their crime of factual reporting.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago

U are literally denying objective reality at best it weakens ur arguments at worse it makes u look like a grifter.