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What was the last skill you learned and how? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 3 weeks ago by fool to c/[email protected]

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It can be a small skill.

The last thing I learned to do was whistle. Never could whistle my whole life, and tutorials and friends never could help me.

So, for the last month or two, I just sort of made the blow shape then spam-tried different "tongue configurations" so to speak -- whenever I had free time. Monkey-at-a-typewriter type shit. It was more an absentminded thing than a practice investment.

Probably looked dumb as hell making blow noises. Felt dumb too ("what? you can't whistle? just watch"), but I kept at it like a really really low-investment... dare I attract self-help gurus... habit.

Eventually I made a pitch, then I could shift the pitch up a little, then five pitches, then Liebestraum, then the range of a tenth or so. Skadoosh. Still doing it now lol.

(Make of this what you will: If I went the musician route my brain told me to, then I would've gotten bored after 1 minute of major scales. When I was stuck at only having five pitches, I had way more longevity whistle-blowing cartoonish Tom-and-Jerry-running-around chromaticisms than failing the "fa" in "do re mi fa".)

So, Lemmings: What was the last skill you learned? And further, what was the context/way in which you learned it?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Probably rudimentary plumbing repair? (More specifically, replacing a bathroom sink faucet.) Via Youtube.

[–] fool 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Nice! How long did it take, and did you hit any roadblocks?

Must've saved a lot of money there.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

Well, the whole saga is longer. We got a bathroom redone and the sink never worked right. It dripped. I took the faucet apart several times trying to fix the drip, but eventually concluded the faucet itself was just cheap crap and couldn't be repaired.

So I bought a nicer one and replaced the faucet entirely. I was a bit intimidated by the prospect of replacing it ahead of time. Usually the drain and faucet "match". (As in, the finish of them matches and if the finish on the drain is a different style/color/etc than the faucet, it'll stand out.) And so they come as a set. But in this case, the drain that was part of the old/cheap faucet a) worked fine and b) was so similar in color/finish/style that you couldn't tell it didn't come with the new faucet. So I didn't end up having to replace the drain, which made the whole process considerably easier.

Oh, I did need to slightly modify the drain closure plunger to fit the old faucet's drain... lever... thing. Heh...

There was definitely a moment once I'd assembled the whole thing and was turning on the valves under the sink that I was a little worried it'd all explode and soak the whole bathroom. Lol. But everything's been fine for months now!

As for how long it took, probably three sessions of a couple of hours each to finally convince myself the old faucet was too defective to try to salvage. And then another thirty minutes to find a new faucet on Amazon and another three or so hours to replace faucet. And about the only roadblocks were the time I spent trying to fix the old faucet and the time I spent procrastinating before undertaking the actual replacement. Heh.

Coming out the other side of that experience, I do feel like I understand the sentiment better now that "if you want it done right, you have to do it yourself." And I think it largely applies even if you don't have any particular amount of expertise. Someone who doesn't have to live with the results may not really care about something like a dripping faucet. If they can check the "replaced the faucet" box, they can say "job's done", charge the customer, and be on their merry way. (And I'm not saying I blame them, really.)

(Of course, that only goes so far. I wouldn't think you ought to DIY things that might be dangerous, for instance.)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

I did this one a few months back with a kitchen faucet! Great learning experience. I even learned that German faucets, at least, don’t affix to the counter the same way as American brands.