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[–] [email protected] 19 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

"Let me make you feel this way real quick..."

"No reply, just feel!"

[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It's this. Anyone who asks you a question and then interrupts your reply was either trying to ask a rhetorical question (which is ambiguous for anyone in this scenario, neurodivergent or typical), or is acting in bad faith. You're completely justified in feeling frustrated by it.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

That question can be clear by tone, and by level of trust.

I'm a very curious person, so I want to understand what drove a decision (even if it was "I don't know" or "Just seemed like the right answer"), and I want to understand someone's approach to things - there's lots to be learned that way.

But yea, quite often it's a rhetorical, judgmental question.