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[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (8 children)

The hits keep on hitting. Told I have the diabeetus last week. This afternoon I get the call that my nan has passed away, so with my parents in America I'm handling things with my best British stiff upper lip and just now I finally sat down after having to call my mum and tell her that her mum has died then dealing with the paperwork, looked at my phone and it appears the reason I stopped hearing from the woman I was interested in persuing things with is that she might have taken her jerk ex back.

Sprinkle in a couple of minor work annoyances like people ignoring things I say when I'm meant to be a voice of authority and I'm just having a grand old time. Yaaaay.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago

I'm so sorry to hear that. Sometimes when it rains with the bad news it pours

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

I'm sorry you're having a hard time mate. Try to find some time to do some things that bring you peace when you can ❀️

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I’m so sorry for your loss

hugs

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

I’m sorry for your loss.

Will you get some time or are you entitled to some bereavement leave?

Make sure you look after yourself as best as possible during this tough time and please let us know if there’s anything we can do for you.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

That's rough man. Really sorry to hear all of that.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Oh that all sucks, I'm sorry. Can you at least take a day or two off work? It'd give you some space to process and minimise the idiots while your tolerance is low.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah I've told work I won't be available tomorrow. Got some things to take care of so it'll be good to take a day.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

Dude! Rememberer to breathe. Hugs.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

My condolences πŸ«‚