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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Young women are alright, right wing support amongst <35 y.o. men is surprisingly high...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

right wing support amongst <35 y.o. men is surprisingly high…

The media is flush with fascist attitudes in a country where going on the computer and listening to fascist rants is all you're allowed to do with your time.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

"in a country where [...] all you're allowed to do with your time."

Eh... The same phenomenon is observed all over first world countries and all of those countries you're allowed to do mostly whatever the fuck you want with your free time...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 14 hours ago

you’re allowed to do mostly whatever the fuck you want with your free time…

You're free to do what you want and the police are free to rough you up for loitering.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Agreed. I'm a teacher and see it in my classrooms. I often feel that they're not taught how to have healthy community, so they become lil fascists...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 hours ago

They know this shit isn't working, so they're siding with the ones who give them someone to blame... It's that simple....

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (3 children)

If they're like my nephew, the "manosphere" gives them easy answers as to why everything seems to suck.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 14 hours ago

Tell your nephew that Trump just said he’ll ban video games if he wins.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yup. And it's always women and brown folks.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Don't forget LGBTQ and furries. 🙄

[–] [email protected] 0 points 22 hours ago

The amount of times I've had to address the "students using litter boxes" schtick is absolutely mind boggling.

It's always a school two towns over, and it's always someone who has no attachment to the school attempting to push it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (2 children)

It's also the only answer. Society has really neglected boys for a long time now.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 hours ago

It doesn't help that every time we point out how society failed boys, there's always someone who says it's misogynistic to show men any concern....

Being a guy is no cake walk, and if anyone can say that with a straight face it's me.

lights up a cigarette They say women like a bad boy, well, I was so bad at being a boy I became a girl.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Yup. Patriarchy did them dirty. Society told them they had to be strong, stoic, and without emotion. And when that butted up against the realities of being a human we didn't have any community to lead them towards living a good and healthy life.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Patriarchy did em dirty, but feminism also left them behind. It's not just patriarchal society that forces men to be strong and stoic, it's also self-professed feminists, especially women. Feminists say men should be more in touch with their emotions, but when they do so women have no interest in them. That's one of the realities of life you mentioned.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Every single woman I know wants a guy in touch with their emotions. And those who found them, married them.

Tell your friends to stop trying to date under 25 year olds. We get over that shit at about this age.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 13 hours ago

Cool, good for you. That's not the norm. At any age.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

That's still patriarchy, my guy. They've been raised to be complicit in a system that doesn't benefit them, and they're perpetuating it because they don't like how it feels to step outside of it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I disagree that it's fair to call that patriarchy, but that's beside the point. The failure of feminists to take any action against it or even to sound like they care is what I was getting at. That is by definition not patriarchy, it's the indifference of feminism.

Feminism may not be directly attacking men, but it's also not helping men except as an occasional side effect of helping women. Men have no acceptable paradigm to help them navigate society.

Any attempt at "Men's theory" or some such gets simultaneously attacked by feminists and misogynists and quickly gets subsumed into one of those two camps.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 18 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Get me over the finish line then.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 16 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

All I see is "everything bad is patriarchy, everything good is feminism" and a steadfast avoidance of the specific issue I brought up.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

The expectations the feminists have, are a part of the patriarchy is what I'm guessing they're trying to say, so it's ultimately still the fault of broader patriarchy. I guess what you're effectively saying is that Feminists are affected by patriarchy too I guess, which is obvious given they're human and most humans aren't perfect.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

The expectations the feminists have, are a part of the patriarchy, is what I’m guessing they’re trying to say, so it’s ultimately still the fault of broader patriarchy and it’s standards.

I mean dude think about it. You are almost literally saying that any bad things feminists do are because of the patriarchy. Any failings in feminist theory is because of patriarchy. Any lack of concern for men, any failure to worry about the lack of concern for men, it's all patriarchy.

Does that really ring true to you? I mean, if patriarchy is such a nebulous thing that it's subconsciously affecting the very things that feminists choose to worry about...then we should be able to lay all of feminism's successes at the feet of patriarchy too, right? Women's sufferage? Patriarchy. Freedom of choice? Patriarchy. Women in the workplace? Patriarchy. You may think it was feminism, but clearly the invisible guiding hand of patriarchy is influencing feminists.

Or is it only patriarchy when it's something bad?

Look, I'm not saying there's no such thing as patriarchy. Or misogyny. I absolutely believe that there are systemic injustices in the world perpetrated against women en masse. I also believe that our historically patriarchal society has caused a level of male-centric bias in our world.

I object to the complete and total failure of feminism to admit to any negative effects whatsoever. Feminism is not self-reflective and therefore can never be egalitarian. It will always be a struggle for one group against another.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I think it does ring true. I think you can also say that, in a way, feminism successes do come from patriarchy, that is to say-

It is built upon patriarchy, through the analysis, critique and solutions offered by feminists to it.

What you are critiquing is the hypocrisy and personal individual failings of feminists, which is valid, but is another problem entirely I feel.

Perhaps you are saying these hypocrises and personal individual failings affect alot more feminists than feminists themselves would like to admit? Or perhaps that these hypocrises and personal individual failings have poisoned feminism and it's touted ideals? That feminists who fail in these ways affect the ideology of feminism and that THIS feminism, the "feminism of hypocrites" is what now pervades majority feminist thought?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

No, I'm saying that of the list of things feminists are concerned about - wage gap, abortion access, burden of child rearing, intersectional issues - no where on that list is any bad things feminists do. I'm not saying it's systemic (I do happen to believe that, but it's irrelevant at the moment), I'm just saying it happens enough that feminism should be worried about it, at least a little. That lack of concern is damning.

It's like having one abusive cop in a department. Ok, there's one bad cop and 99 good ones, but the 99 good ones are not denouncing him. They are protecting him. So in a way, you have 100 bad cops. If the 99 cops were denouncing him, refusing to work with him, petitioning the police union to disown him, etc...that would be fine. But they never do.

Individual women being shitty is individual women being shitty. Feminism refusing to admit it has a problem in its ranks is feminism being shitty.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

If a woman tells a man to having emotions isn't manly then they're not acting as a feminist. That, by definition, is an idea that comes to us from the religious, moral, and civic tradition that produced the modern patriarchy. The people, men and women, who say and do things that reflect and maintain those ideas are failing the ideals of feminism.

To use an analogy, North Korea calls itself a democracy. They do not elect a leader. That doesn't mean democracy has failed, just that this country is doing anti democratic things.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Great! That's a great outlook. Now please start saying those things without a guy like me having to browbeat you into it first. And start saying them to the women who are failing feminism, not to us. If feminism would reject and excise these women, and focus on teaching women to be better (not exclusively focusing on that! Just make it part of the program) then everything I've been talking about would be a nothingburger.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 hours ago

Maybe you should work on your reading comprehension, because that's what I and like 4 other commenters have been saying. Then you can go ahead and submit a complaint to the president of feminism, since you seem to think that they're having a meeting and deciding that you personally aren't masculine enough for them.

Grow up.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 23 hours ago

when they do so women have no interest in them.

Personally, I find my experience to be much the opposite. But, I'm also in my late thirties so, experiences may differ.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

You need to hang out with better women, my man.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

See? Dismissive, refusal to acknowledge systemic issues, rugged individualism. That's holdovers from patriarchy and feminists should reject that thought process.

When women have a problem, it is society's fault and we should fix it. When men have a problem, it's their own fault and they individually should fix it. That's not fair, and the fact that no one in the feminist sphere seems to give a shit leaves young men deciding to turn to misogynists for moral support.

Red pill types will say, "we see you. This is a problem. You're not crazy." That's very powerful when there's no alternative.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

You have a lot more sympathy for right-wing incels than you do for people who don't support genocide.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Jernersayd

#onejoke for Russian shills

[–] [email protected] 0 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

We've talked about your singular love for genocide multiple times in the past. In the context of your hatred for feminism and your sympathy for incels, you truly are the voice of centrism.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

We've also talked about how the politics mods apparently won't let me defend myself against you even when you follow me to another sub just to pile on me with unrelated...things to say.

HIGHLY UNSPECIFIED THINGS WHICH I AM NOT COMMENTING ON, MODS.

Except to say that it has nothing to do with the discussion at hand, so please talk about something relevant or leave.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

We’ve also talked about how the politics mods apparently won’t let me defend myself against you

Your defense includes mocking genocide victims and screaming "russian shill" at anyone who doesn't agree with your total and unwavering support for genocide for the sheer love of it.

Your ideas regarding support for genocide are right-wing. Just like your sympathy for incels and your rejection of feminism. Your support for right wing ideology and policy is consistent.

Except to say that it has nothing to do with the discussion at hand, so please talk about something relevant or leave.

I explained how the two are related. If you don't want to interact with me, don't.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Dude, you jumped into this conversation. I don't have much choice but to interact with you.

Also, for the record, I disagree with your characterization of me.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Dude, you jumped into this conversation. I don’t have much choice but to interact with you.

You can ignore me instead of belittling genocide and screaming that I'm a Russian shill. But then that would result in someone saying the genocide is bad without being screamed at, and you can't have that.

Also, for the record, I disagree with your characterization of me.

Then I'll amend it. Life sucks for everyone, not just the people you identify with. That's not feminism's fault. Quit whining about it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Can't argue with that.

Literally.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I mean, you could state your case without accusing me of being a Russian shill, but that would require your position to be defensible.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You can fault the Right for a lot of things but they got there first on this one. They have a story for why things suck and they’re pounding the drum on it relentlessly. It doesn’t matter that this story is full of holes when the alternative is not compelling.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago

Yup. The propaganda machine moved quick when they realized this population could be manipulated into action outside of message boards.