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submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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When I get fast food, I don't eat the fries until I get home.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Do you feel that getting the worst jobs done also helps to boost your mood, because that awful thing you didn't want to do is now done?

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Not in that way, but:

A) my environment is usually nicer afterwards, which improves mood, and

2] if I was miserable due to fighting with my partner, seeing me do chores usually improves her mood, facilitating reconciliation

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

I am sorry you are fighting with your partner. Have a heart ❤️ that means nothing to you.