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The person who wrote this has not met many married people. I don't think they ever had a best friend either.
As someone who is 15 years into the situation OP described - yes it's somewhat of an oversimplication of how it all works... but broadstokewise it's on the money with the right partner and mindset. Whether your marriage works this way or not comes down to how fungible you both believe your partner to ultimately be and how much you dedicate to being each other's joy.
Thinking being pessimistic in the face of romance is just "reality" means your chances of experiencing that kind of romance become mighty slim. Optimism and trust are nessisary components to making it happen but are sadly also attractive to abusers. End of the day I wish OP the very best of luck because coming home to your partner excited to see them every day for years on end really is worth the attempt.
Yep, also had a "bad" experience recently with divorce. Still not feeling back to 100%, but I know deep down that a happy, functional relationship is just around the corner. I could meet them at any point, and if we're true partners, we'll find a way to be happy with eachother. It's a little tough to remain optimistic, but it's dramatically better than giving up and being cold and pessimistic for the rest of my life!