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[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago (3 children)

It's better to show your kids what is like to be happy and have your needs met than to show them being miserable and setling. Especially on their behalf.

Which would you rather for your kids?

Which are you showing your kids by example?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

'Hey kids, your mom won't give daddy the nookie so I'ma head out now'

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

Ok, but me being in my late 30s I'd be like, I get it dad.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago

Fair enough, it really does depend on how old the kids are, but the mental image was too funny to me

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Ah, yes. Let me tell the children that I'm getting a divorce cause wifey won't fuck me

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

How about, "Daddys leaving because he no longer in a loving relationship with mommy." Divorce isn't the end of the world.

[–] silasmariner 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

For real though, why is everyone heading straight to divorce, instead of talking about how to tap that wife

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Cause it's condescending to explain to a person you don't know who has been in a serious relationship with a person you dont know for who knows how long that you can tap it if you're just an extra good boy.

[–] silasmariner 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Pretty condescending to tell somebody you don't know that they need to get divorced too. Tbh libidos can go to shit after kids so yeah. Maybe my funny joke wasn't so funny. Ah well, I always have had a crap sense of humour

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I didn't say they should get divorced only pointed out that it's not that big of a deal.

[–] silasmariner 1 points 4 hours ago

I don't really give a shit what you think, divorce is a big deal

[–] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago

Do you have kids? I used to hate when people would ask me that question before I had kids, because it seems to imply that having them places your opinion on a higher tier. Now that I do, I try and avoid it as much as possible for that reason, but I do understand that parenting is one of the theaters where theory space, and optimal practice, can be very different. The fact is, they never have to know, at least until they're old enough to understand. They don't have to know that Dad is sad when he's alone with Mom, because we still have fun and laugh as a family when they are present. The lesson that I'm teaching them by example, is that it is better to have one bedroom than two, then to have to decide whether they want to live with mom or dad most of the time, that even though Mom and Dad civilly argue sometimes, we can still be a family, and be happy most of the time, rather than give up on a promise made before they were born because of factors they can't possibly understand yet.