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So there's one approach to fortune-telling where you convince them that you have some magical ability to figure out their secrets, and then you use cold-reading techniques to trick them into thinking you have mystic powers.
But there's a better approach where you give someone an open-ended set of symbols, and you use those to help the person think through the issues in their life. You're giving them the opportunity to reflect on things from a new perspective.
So you talk to the person and describe what each card means, and they think about how it applies to their life. They might ask questions like: "does 'loss in worldly matters' mean money?" and you say "sure, it can, or it can mean something else like being reprimanded at work." and they might say "oh, I think in my case it means (whatever)." And then you can think together how that applies to the rest of the reading. People have a lot of things going on in their lives, things can just slip by, and this gives them a chance to step back and think it all over.
Someone did my tarot recently, and I didn't realize the second way existed. Paired with introspection after the fact, the experience was quite therapeutic.