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submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I have some sensory issues around crowd noise; she is very much not the hike-in-the-mountains type. Rather than one or other of us having to be miserable, we each do our own thing when they'd otherwise conflict. Easy fix :)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

Very excellent. My partner and I do some hobbies separately, but I couldn't imagine throwing a party without him. (Given how few I've thrown, that would be a remarkable event for me.) Sensory issues absolutely make sense as a reason to avoid that, though.

I love and respect the way people with different preferences make relationships work... Power to you both!