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Yeah, there is a complaint process (there's several, actually). The program coordinator said she's issued a 1st warning, but there's a total of 3 warnings before there's a strike. Any subsequent warnings automatically become a strike, and 3 strikes = being kicked out. If something like this happens again, I will complain. The program coordinator seems to think he's probably going to be kicked out eventually, so that's a nice sign...
Fortunately our bathrooms and toilets aren't shared (seriously I went through almost 6 years of that, and never again.), so I don't need to worry too much about toiletries going missing. Our utilities are included in our rent, and the bills don't actually get sent here, they go straight to the head office. But I imagine if the 24/7 heating keeps happening, we'll probably get a conversation about electricity usage.
Unfortunately I don't think we can close the ducts we have in our rooms, they're the older style 4 panel ones that are shaped like a cross and have 4 panels in each corner that can be adjusted to different directions that forms a square. Doing some Google, apparently they're sometimes magnetic, and magnetic vent covers are a thing, but they look more plastic like to me, so it may be a case of needing to duct tape some cardboard to it. I actually did buy a heater from Kmart because my last one clogged up with dust and I couldn't get it out without tearing it down, couriers please were meant to deliver it almost a week ago, but just kinda decided they didn't want to. You probably know how they are.
I am actually considering buying a couple of appliances for my room. Kmart sell kettles and toasters for 7 bucks, and a 2nd hand bar fridge is only like $50 on gumtree or the marketplace, but I don't know whether I should go to that extreme yet. It feels possibly overkill.
Theft and drug use wise, the program coordinator still hasn't actually filled me in on the details and seems pretty set on keeping that a state secret. I found out through the lead tenant that moved out. Although it will probably affect me, she keeps talking about confidentiality. I can see that aspect, but it seems relevant and important for me to know what I need to expect, so I'm rather displeased about that
Thank goodness. But sus out how safe it'll be to complain first. Sometimes it'll get back to the idiot you're dealing with and aggravate them, then you're left with them taking it out on you.
That's good, I was going to suggest a kettle for your room but thought that you'd have to keep refilling a container of water in the kitchen and it would raise questions. Bathroom sink might be an option if you're desperate and it's frequently disinfected?
Have a think about the bar fridge I guess. Extra fridges do consume extra electricity. But if utilities are being paid for, you have the money to buy it, it'll make this crap time safer/more comfortable and your fridge space needs aren't large... it might be good to have one already when you eventually move out on your own. That's one less thing you have to buy immediately upon moving. It also means you could hold off on getting a full size fridge until you measure the dimensions in the new place. The one thing I'd consider though is if the energy efficiency might be bad or have become outdated by the time you leave. (Is that a thing?) Could just sell it on once you're the utility account holder.
Edit: If you're allowed to take home food from work/can get any cheap large meals that also provides somewhere to keep leftovers for the next day.
Yeah... confidentiality is important but some of these things you really would want to know upfront.
Mate, all I can say is you're a far stronger person than I am - you are dealing with some of the shittiest living situations and still thinking through it logically despite being sick as well. It's so shit that you had to come back to this. I apologise for not remembering, but when do you get to finally get to leave the system/age out? It's within a year... I hope?? π¬
I turn 18 in March, but because of transitions and such, I can stay here until I'm 19 if it leads to a better outcome, which seems likely at the moment
Okay, at least you have some options. You seem optimistic that this new dropkick will be booted fairly soon but until he is it sounds like you have to go through more crap. I really wish you didn't have to but you can always vent in the DT whenever you need to...