Women's shirts tend to fit the torso better than the loose cut of most men's shirts. There are different types (blouses, knits, crop tops) but they're all mixed together in the same section at the thrift store. It also helps to wear colorful socks. Don't forget hair clips, which serve the practical purpose of keeping hair out of your face. I have a set of 20 little colorful clips that look like flowers when I arrange them in my hair, and it only takes 5 minutes.
lazyneet
joined 1 year ago
I know. I'm privacy conscious and have software dev and IT training. I'm a lot better than most zoomers in that regard. I'm just hoping that my niche actually exists in the real world and isn't purely a rhetorical construct invented to get underage queers to join discord servers and talk about identity issues. I would hope glowies have better things to do than infiltrate the gay community. I would also hope that the liminal space of looking like a girl but not identifying as one is a common shared experience. My litmus test is age, so the more 40something and 50something femboys and sissies I see, the more secure I am in the label's legitimacy. Do girly boys hold a special place in your heart?
My sexy fun for the year seemed to start and end in July. It seems I can't get much, but that doesn't stop me from trying. I brought a gay friend to a BDSM group a couple days ago, and he politely observed and listened to people talk. Very quiet and non-confrontational sort of guy. I don't think he's interested in me.
I've also taken an interest in niche dating sites - made an account on Duolicious and managed to make contact with a metrosexual 24-year-old, but he's so incredibly shy and reserved that I don't think it's going anywhere. I also found a site called Sissy Island, but they're having server errors. If I could date only in femboy and sissy circles, especially if the crowd skews more to Gen Y, I couldn't ask for more. My sexuality is abnormal, and I guess I'm going against the grain by avoiding people I'm not attracted to, since the standard for my generation seems to be having no standards.
To be the webcam on that netbook <3
Where indeed? I'm pansexual, currently leaning more gay, nb-presenting male with a thin frame. If I had no standards, I could probably find some bear in the area. Scruff is another gay app, and I managed to meet someone through that who looks like my type but isn't much of a top and didn't want to meet again. I'm also on a BDSM-focused gay site called Recon, where I've been engaged in a multi-month ongoing conversation with this shy pantyhose fetishist who eventually wants to try things. I avoid Grindr because I'm not looking for disposable experiences.
I've been in femboy mode for the past 6 months, and it has not delivered results. Unless you count some negativity from an old lady on a bus. I've only been using nail polish for a couple weeks, and I did get a positive comment on that. Unfortunately, I'm tall and have stress lines on my face, so it's hard for me to feel cute, and I get into a negative feedback loop because of that.
That is one built booty. You could break cinder blocks with those legs. 🫦
I'm sure your roommate will be fine with it. As for your job, do you know any LGBT coworkers? They could give you advice on how to proceed.
You should! I'm not in the best town for it, but I wear tomboyish girl clothes and a little makeup about 4 days per week. Trust me, you'll be fine.
I saw your username and for a second I thought you were Margot the sexy crossdresser. :D Message me <3
I'm into girly boys or boyish girls who are absolute sadists, or switches. My sexuality is BDSM-informed. That means I talk about rape and torture a lot. To me it's all fun and games because I've never had the opportunity to get raped, never had a relationship last longer than 2 years, never talked to a doctor about HRT despite me desperately trying to avoid the label of "man". I'm looking for someone to enable my depraved femininity.
You should definitely grow your hair out too, if you aren't dealing with male pattern baldness. And paint your nails. Real sissies are in sissy mode all the time.